« first day (3359 days earlier)      last day (1655 days later) » 

4:00 PM
I have no regrets clicking on that
 
I regret having trusted StephanS's lack of regrets
 
@JohnDvorak if this site has taught you anything it should have been "trust no one"
 
is this a flair show-off?
 
4:10 PM
 
Nothing wrong with being proud of our contributions to the network we love.
 
@ArtOfCode almost got you!
 
I think Kevin B has us beat
 
@Magisch ah, but I have more sites and badgers :P
 
@ArtOfCode mushroom mushroom?
 
oh nvm
 
took me too long to work out which id to use
 
@ArtOfCode You do have a nice badge collection. I may get another goldie soon, if I get 10 more upvotes on my Astronomy answer about global warming (or lack thereof) on Mars. But I guess that might not happen now that it's dropped off the HNQ.
 
I've got a few gold badges along with ridiculous amounts of rep thanks to all this drama
 
4:14 PM
hello, I'm not a regular here but IIRC y'all do right? meta.stackexchange.com/a/335537/401104
 
yup
 
MSE is already my 4th highest site
https://stackexchange.com/users/flair/219684.png
 
Oh dear edit war incoming on that question. Someone reverted a change a mod made to introduce gender neutrality.
 
I'm kinda tempted to write a MSE answer, or maybe even a question, just to collect enough rep to downvote answers. But with my luck, I'd probably lose rep instead. ;) OTOH, my few SO meta posts have done fairly well, vote-wise.
 
Won't roll it back again but did flag
I'm ignoring the linked meta.SE answer though. downvotes can take care of that :P
 
4:19 PM
I am thinking about changing display name by adding something to show that I support Monica but having a difficulty to choose wording, could someone advise? I considered several phrases so far but feel like it can be spelled out better: "support Monica", "bring back Monica", "fairness for Monica", "I am with Monica", "Monica for moderator", "apologize to Monica"
 
meh
 
How about "gnat"?
 
That'll never fly.
 
Why does Community keep protecting the CoC FAQ?
 
@LightnessRacesinOrbit which one?
 
4:20 PM
@JohnDvorak happens when posts by new users get deleted
auto-protect
 
@JohnDvorak probably because it keeps getting deleted answers from new users
 
huh, changed him to their but missed all the other references of "he"...don't get that edit
 
ah, thanks
 
19
A: What causes a question to be protected by the Community ♦ user

BraiamThat specific old question could be protected by the amount of views it generated or the total amount of answers, since protection kicked in whenever a question had over 10 answers or 10,000 views. Whatever happened first. Right now isn't like that, protection only kicks in: when 3 to 20 (depe...

 
just ping someone here, we can unprotect it
 
4:22 PM
@LinkBerest Prob just didn't look too closely; the text he did alter had been edited previously by others and thus stood out. I also didn't spot the other utterances until you just said that, because I wasn't looking
 
yeah but if your going to edit one thing then fix the whole post was the general rule
I think I see why only that instance was changed based on the edit history though (not really worth digging deeper than that)
 
new question with the words "pronouns" and "CoC" < takes two shots > there will be more
 
Also sometimes the CMs have been locking posts if they are going to be offline (i.e. all of them) and they know it needs special attention. I'm personally fine with this cause they deserve their sleep.
 
@LinkBerest That's the rule for low rep users whose edits will hit the review queue, simply for reducing workload for others. In the main, there is no such rule. You don't have to promise fix absolutely everything; an improvement is an improvement. I'm sure Martijn would have changed the other instances had he noticed them.
 
hello
 
4:26 PM
yeah, me too (and they are a little bit buried so I can see someone missing them)
 
I know I'll probably get some backlash for this but um I feel like people need to see this answer.meta.stackexchange.com/a/335471/622332 sorry
 
@Gwideon I think you need to see some of the comments under it. Sorry.
 
I have
 
Cool :)
So, who's seen El Camino?
 
"I know ... I'll get backlash" but i'll do it anyways
 
4:28 PM
because I honestly believe what I'm saying
 
ok I'll read it
 
and I need to speak my mind
 
I doubt anyone has anything to add that hasn't been said so far
It would be nice to be able to talk about something else for a while
2
 
yeah
 
4:29 PM
sorry
 
i'm just making my feelings known and um the fact that I haven't felt very welcome here for the past few weeks
 
I don't think anyone disagrees with "disrespectful and blatantly bigoted behavior [..] is unacceptable". Most people agree that "intentional misgendering" falls under that. But we're all trying to assume good faith, and your answer does not.
3
 
Which, it turns out, is the problem
And it's why I'm not going to be drawn into a discussion about it
 
sorry
 
4:30 PM
I hope you have a better time going forwards though Gwideon
 
i'll just shut up
 
you don't have to do that
 
I really think it's important not to misconstrue "being tired of this conversation" or "XYZ issue with SE mgmt" with some "we hate Gwideon and what he stands for". Because we don't! Okay, some people do, and they've been emboldened lately. I'm sorry you've had to read posts from them. But please don't think that it's the main crux of the issue here. It isn't.
3
At least, not for me, or for anyone I know here.
 
so how about that weather
 
Feel free to express your identity however you want, we're not going to attack you for it. Though it might be removed from technical posts where it isn't relevant.
 
4:32 PM
I'm not
 
So you absolutely do not need to "just shut up". The fact that I am not interested in further endless debate about this issue shouldn't have any bearing whatsoever on what you say and where and why. Have fun :)
@StephanS It's awful
 
@LightnessRacesinOrbit really?
 
@StephanS Indeed
 
@Gwideon hey, what a coincidence we both happened to drop in here :) just wanted to say, I hope my comments didn't cause more problems for you. I did get a bit overly annoyed when I was responding. wishing you the best - it's really not that strife-filled outside of meta in my experience :)
 
That is part of the human cost of all this cascading management failure. People are driven to argue opposition to everything and the backlash to this is much bigger then it would have ever been
 
4:33 PM
I'm honestly tired of the drama as well. oh no they didn't
 
And yes that means a lot of hostile people are riding the anti-company sentiment right now
 
@LightnessRacesinOrbit around where are you located (I ask while trying not to sound creepy)
 
@StephanS Current location: awful weather's ville
 
it's not just anti company sentiment sometimes. I understand there are concerns but sometimes I feel those concerns aren't put out there in the most respectful manner and um yeah it makes me sad that respect seems to be flying out the window sometimes.
anyways
i'm gonna move on
 
Oh hey sure don't get me wrong there are plenty of d!ck$ about
that's why the FAQ keeps getting auto-protected by Community 😂
 
4:37 PM
@Gwideon FWIW, quite a few LGBTQ people have mentioned feeling less safe & less included because of recent events.
 
Its been discussed before (have to get ready for work so cannot find the quotes right now) but there is a definite feeling of the handling of this and other issues by the company leading to a huge backlash against LGBTQ members
 
yeah
 
and other groups actually as its spread out
 
quite a few of everyone have been feeling less safe and less included
 
if only someone could have predicted that
perhaps some kind of elected moderator
they could ask questions and raise concerns in private
 
4:39 PM
@Gwideon I'm seeing the same from the other side. The best answer so far that touched on the effects on religious people ... openly equated SOinc with the Roman empire prosecution, and was negatively received by the community.
 
If they had asked say in a private room before doing this, someone might have told them what would happen
 
without fear of reprisal
you could call it a "Teacher's Lounge" for irony
🤦‍♂️
 
only because a Teacher's Lounge has historically been a place where teachers can speak openly to each other and administration - of course
 
of course
So, who's seen El Camino?
 
If only they had a couple hundred highly trusted people who could help them calm the firestorm if they just jumped over their shadow
oh wait
 
4:42 PM
@LinkBerest And you'd know about that, being an actual teacher & all.
 
I made myself sad again
 
@LightnessRacesinOrbit nobody's seen it, it's not going to work
 
usp sup sup
at leasst, I've learn to write code again
 
professor now :) (but yes...and technically still a teacher :)
 
4:42 PM
in the day the chaos has reigned.
 
@LightnessRacesinOrbit wat? why?
 
anyways lets move on
 
@LightnessRacesinOrbit I watched it this weekend.
 
@202324 What do you mean "why"?
@SecretAgentMan Me too!
 
@LightnessRacesinOrbit Thoughts?
 
4:43 PM
Obviously we cannot discuss plot details in the open for fear of spoiling people, but
 
never mind, I was in mistake, sorry
 
the cast ageing was a bit distracting I won't lie. other than that, nais
 
@LinkBerest did you hear we're probably going to have at least one more hurricane this year : (
 
@SecretAgentMan And you?
 
@Gwideon Good idea. Here, have a cute animal picture: an Australian Sugar Glider.
 
4:57 PM
That is terrifying
 
@LightnessRacesinOrbit it was engaging at times, a bit slow at times, overall my enjoyment of the show BB kept me there probably a bit more than the movie
 
@LightnessRacesinOrbit I enjoyed it though. Glad I watched it. Worth watching if one has never seen it.
 
Sugar gliders are very small and timid. I've never seen one in the wild.
 
@StephanS yeah, I got luck with the last one but that's never good news
 
5:02 PM
@LinkBerest yeah I'm somewhere near central so I only got the run off storms, one tree down but nothing that bad
 
Awwwww...
 
This photo gives you an idea of how small sugar gliders are, although this one isn't fully grown.
We had a fairly mild winter here in the southern hemisphere. And spring kind of started early, but there have still been a few cool days & chilly nights.
 
The background is a human finger
 
@JohnDvorak Is that a baby huntsman?
 
That's a jumping spider
adult, I believe
 
5:11 PM
Without spoiling El Camino... it's nice that it answers "how does the story end for Jesse"
 
Oh, ok. It looks a little bit like a huntsman, I guess they could be related. Huntsmen can jump, but it's pretty unusual, and they rarely attack humans unless they're cornered and can't escape.
 
@StephanS Irma ripped the roof off my house (we were evacuated so all okay), Dorian just made me lose internet for a few days so lucky :)
 
oh wow um that's really freaking creepy
 
@PM2Ring Huntsman spiders are like one of the least aggressive forms of spider
big enough to be visible, too
 
5:17 PM
can we scroll a bit?
 
@JohnDvorak There are over 90 huntsman species, with a fair variation in looks. The ones I've seen tend to look hairier than the ones on WP en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Huntsman_spider
 
anyway, off to an actual physical location for work so hasta luego
 
Jumping spiders are incredibly varied, too
 
Or maybe move the spider pic, so it doesn't trigger the arachnophobes.
 
5:21 PM
@Magisch Agreed. I've often had to trap them & take them outside, because they freak some people out. And I must admit, I'm not exactly pleased if one decides to set up camp in my bedroom. :)
 
@202324 completely unrelated to the new CoC I presume? :P
 
2 messages moved to Trashcan
 
> risky outdoors stuff: n. taking your laptop into the garden and going onto meta SE
 
5:38 PM
The best way to see a huntsman spider is to google "huntsman dragging a mouse". Pretty freaky to see a spider dragging a mammal off for dinner.
 
To be fair mammals are better food for spiders than invertebrates. No exoskeleton to pierece through with your fragile teeth, and no poison in the majority of cases.
Also, mammals suck in defense against agility build predators.
 
But I'm a mammal!
 
You're far too big for a common huntsman
 
@PM2Ring These things are adorable. A fully grown one will comfortably occupy your hand (although you'll have to have your fingers spread out).
 
This fella was struggling with a mouse.
 
5:43 PM
You're far too rational
 
we're not in a huntsman spider's prey scheme
we're in the "Hell no that is a lot bigger then me" scheme
 
That you know of.
 
having a spider moving and built like a spider is of the size to rival a human is impossible
 
@user58 we're in the endgame of their schemes. it's a multi-generational thing.
 
something about how their bodies work and move
 
5:46 PM
If a six-meter tall spider were to exist, they'd surely develop a taste for human flesh.
 
Ungoliant will walk again.
 
even one meter tall will do
 
if a six meter spider existed I'd tame it and use it to rule the earth realm
or hide far away from wherever that thing is
 
Melkor tried that, look how well it ended for him.
 
5:48 PM
probably the latter
 
How do you propose to tame a six-meter obligate carnivore?
 
a big steak
 
They only eat live food
 
5:50 PM
I once was attacked by a giant tarantula, probably a goliath bird eater. Even 12 inches is terrifying.
 
still you could kill that with your hand
imagine how terrified the spider is of the giant that is gesticulating wildly
 
Yeah, once your brain re-engages, from having frozen up by the other-wordliness of the sight before it.
WTH!!! is far too mild an expression to describe it.
 
You aren't gesticulating wildly. You're vividly tugging on a sticky trap rated for humans, and mostly restricted to just one pose. Also the spider is behind you and fully aware of your danger zones.
Oh, you mean the tarantula. A leather boot will do the job.
(from the side! don't squish it!)
 
generally don't kill larger spiders
they eat smaller insects and are good stewards of the food chain
 
Don't kill any spiders.
 
5:54 PM
spiders are cool
 
The thing was running at me, and my brain froze up. It was trying to process what it was seeing and not being able to accept it. The monster got to three inches away before I realized "you know maybe I should just move and reevaluate later."
 
It was just feeling threatened.
 
My shorts were feeling threatened!
 
the only reason you get attacked by a spider ever is if it feels threatened
no spider is hunting humans
thats not how a food chain works
 
@Magisch to be fair though, some tarantulas tend to be feel threatened by everything.
Although I do suppose it depends on their owner. Not sure about wild ones.
 
6:00 PM
This was a wild one. I had recently arrive in the Amazon and was helping fix up an abandoned house for a team member. The thing apparently had taken possession of the house and was not pleased with our invasion of its territory.
 
Ah, gotcha
Two words: catch cup
 
six words: catch bucket, and change of shorts
 
If you put it in a plastic container, it can't bite you, and you can move it to something bigger when there's time for it.
@AgapwIesu great strategy!
 
just don't let it catch you with your pants down
 
meanwhile spider's like "that was my house, now I'm homeless :("
 
6:05 PM
You contain it first, and then change clothes
 
I wish that I could say that we set it free. You are totally right that is the right thing to do. They keep other pests under control, and in my four years there, I never heard of a human getting bitten.
 
yeah, the very little anecdotal data I have is that they're pretty harmless to humans
 
I'm not saying set it free. I'm saying keep it as a pet.
 
I'd rather face a tarantula then a brown recluse. At least you can see the former coming.
 
also a tarantula biting you is less dangerous
 
6:06 PM
I did get bitten by lots of other nasty stuff. And what the natives told us is that the tarantula bite, for a grown person, is not worse than a nasty wasp bite.
 
A brown recluse doesn't bite until it's actually half-squished
 
@JohnDvorak doesn't matter if you don't notice it or are asleep
 
Eh, I don't think they'd pay a visit to your bed.
 
a friend of mine from australia once joked about finding them in his schoes from time to time
 
@JohnDvorak I thought most bites happen like that
 
6:08 PM
Most bites happen when you put on something already worn by the spider
 
get up in the morning, and you realize it had been a brown recluse when, uh, the uncomfortable effects appear
@JohnDvorak and they wear 4 pants at a time!
 
"4 pants"???.... (far too long)... LOL.
 
Just undress the spider before you put anything on
 
@JohnDvorak A song for you Tiny Spiders. A song about encountering lots of baby spiders "parachuting" in the breeze on a strand of web.
 
The worst bug attack I had was when leaf-cutter ants invaded our kitchen and living room in the middle of the night... why?... they never go in a house! ... what do you do? you can't exactly squish a couple thousand ants.
 
6:15 PM
Were they aggressive, or were they just collecting your trash?
 
If you can't squish a couple thousand ants, you clearly aren't trying hard enough.
 
Yeah, redbacks are rather dangerous. But a common daddy longlegs spider can make short work of a redback.
 
Do you mean harvesmen, cellar spiders or crane flies?
 
Cellar spiders. Aka Pholcus phalangioides
 
6:24 PM
I share my home with triangulate cobweb spiders. Completely harmless and I've heard they have a taste for other spiders, too
 
Wow...I turn my back for about...a couple months...and now we're onto spiders. I can feel them crawling up my neck...(shiver)
 
I can assure you that isn't a spider
 
Aaah
 
@Eleeza Blame John. I posted some cute animal pics to make people feel safe & welcome. But JD decided to turn the conversation to arachnids for some reason. ;)
 
@JohnDvorak - "were they aggressive?" - I did not stick around to find out. I got up in the middle of the night to get a drink of water, find a blanket of ants all over every surface in the kitchen and living room, and went back to my bedroom, to pray they did not decide to go in there.
 
6:29 PM
Double shivers
 
@Mark - you try and squish a few thousand leaf-cutters. You squish even one, then the rest attack you. Guess where the odds are.
 
FWIW, huntsman spiders feel incredibly silky. I've never tried to pat one, but I have had them run over my hand or foot while I was trying to trap them so I could take them outside.
 
"feel incredibly silky"... so does the hangman's noose, I imagine.
 
I'm scared now
 
The whole idea was to switch to less nasty topics... mission accomplished.
 
6:33 PM
I'd rather talk about bugs than methods of execution
 
I find that insects tend to be quite disrespectful to humans
 
WHAT?! How dare they?!!1!
 
@AgapwIesu Uh... yeah, that got a bit out of hand. I'd trash that if I weren't on mobile.
 
:) They make any mammal fur seem coarse by comparison. Even baby alpaca, which are about the softest mammal I've ever patted.
 
@Eleeza you do have unit tests, right?
 
6:36 PM
Insects don't even care for their young
 
@PM2Ring I would have gone with kittens
 
Tim's Post has gone under now :( +81/-104
 
@AnsgarWiechers 😁
 
@JohnDvorak Most Hymenoptera do.
 
@JohnDvorak Eh?
Many do care for their young. What they won't do, is coddle their young so much that their young are, from the outset, almost completely incapable of actually surviving on their own when the time comes.
Let's just say there's no Stack Overflow in the insect world. Baby spider coder got to solve his own problem... but he's better off for it!
 
6:40 PM
@user58 seems like your bot it down
 
retracting
 
Just like a spider, from its young.
 
@Magisch I'm guessing my laptop crashed. heads upstairs to diagnose
 
Huntsmen carry their babies on their backs until the young ones are big enough to disperse
 
@LightnessRacesinOrbit That spider wants to grow up to be a web developer...
 
6:43 PM
Ants & bees generally look after their larvae. Wasps, not so much, apart from laying their eggs in an adequate food source.
 
Hmm. Looks like it had an issue with the API.
 
Flies don't even live long enough to see their kids hatch
There's even a spider species that produces milk
 
rebooted
 
@Magisch Yeessssss 💥
@JohnDvorak That's... actually really sad. F***.
 
And at least one that keeps adding nutritious silk to its egg sac for the babies to eat
 
6:45 PM
@LightnessRacesinOrbit I aim to pun
opportunities like these are rare
 
you bring the fun!
 
So no fly has ever met its parents. No wonder the species never learns from its mistakes...
specieses
whatever
 
@LightnessRacesinOrbit order
 
@JohnDvorak Yep. Lots of baby spiders eat "milk web".
 
Jumping spiders don't build webs, except when raising young.
 
6:48 PM
No male ant or bee ever meets its father. Because they don't have fathers. :) The war between the sexes got rather extreme in the Hymenoptera.
 
It's even worse for the male anglerfish
 
I thought there was 'King' bees
but maybe they don't live very long
 
there are male bees
they don't usually live past making kids
 
They're called drones I think.
 
that ^
 
6:50 PM
Male anglerfish just ... latches onto the female and fuses into it.
 
heh, male mantis's
get their heads bitten off some times.
 
it's not funny
 
@djsmiley2k Female bees have 2 parents. Male bees just have a mother.
 
@PM2Ring ah!
I've not read about it for years
when i was a kid, I had like all 150 of the series 'Bugs' including the one that got misprinted with half of 'animals of fathingwood' in the middle
 
6:52 PM
@ArtOfCode FYI I'm having some troubles getting your pull request to run properly.
 
@PM2Ring cool, and interesting
 
Animals of Farthing Wood: excellent; Bugs: also excellent
 
So really, I guess the male/female distinction doesn't really work...
 
@djsmiley2k It generally does, but it may not work the same in other species as it does in the mammals.
 
6:54 PM
@djsmiley2k You should ask about that on meta
 
@LightnessRacesinOrbit 'How should I refer to bees?'
 
yeah, not even going to go there.
 
We should just have a "Bee Nice" policy and leave it at that
 
oh gawd;.
 
6:56 PM
Have insect something to offend you?
 
It's really bugging me.
 
Sorry, I couldn't hornet.
(ugh - that was really lousey)
 
Hmm... under that Bee Nice policy, would I still bee allowed to tell someone to buzz off?
 
Kids books about insects generally don't get into the juicy details of insect sex lives. But the amount of variation in those details is incredible. But I guess that's to be expected after hundreds of millions of generations of evolution.
 
@Glorfindel that'd be because I forgot to test it before I sent the PR... intended to, but forgot. I'll give it a check :)
 
6:58 PM
Don't be ant-i-social.
 
@ScottHannen haha i was trying to think up a ant based one
Ah well, I can likely worm my way out of any trouble.
 

« first day (3359 days earlier)      last day (1655 days later) »