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@Rob which of the lines? lol
 
Rob
IO - Posts "Ridin' " video.
 
@It'sOver trolling?
Not copy&paste but pretty close...
 
Rob
@Shadow9 This one:
 
@Shadow9 now, since when you know Furious Destroyer? I mean, I mentioned him multiple time, but... I don't exactly expect you to remember:P
in Kirin Village Outskirts on The Stack Exchange Network Chat, Nov 22 '19 at 11:45, by Derpy
suspicious looking equines continue to pop out randomly in Pat videos...
 
3:08 PM
@BlueSoul is it the same Pat?
Guess he got furious when breaking up from Jen...
 
@Shadow9 yep, and that is indeed "SuperGirlyGamer" Jen
 
hehe
 
and before you ask, yep, the pony in the picture is indeed a MLP character.
Celestia, to be precise.
 
This user use the first three letters of my real name! flagging
:D
@BlueSoul how can you tell? Colors only?
So if you make a yellow character, will it be @M.A.R? ;)
 
@Shadow9 colors patterns, the stylized sun shaped cutie mark on the flank, the fact that other ponies had appeared in previous videos (if it is yellow, with a pink mane and has some butterflies cutie mark... it probably is Fluttershy)
the fact that there is a never finished mod for minecraft that adds ponies from MLP and I can recognize the character model from there... it is also a clue :P
also... ouch.
Can you please let me know if you have obtained consent from all the users whose names and avatars you are currently featuring on your home page and in the reputation leagues? If you have not obtained express consent from these users, then you seem to be in violation of your own policy. Why does the policy for featuring questions on Meta not apply to Stack Exchange's own home page? — Cody Gray 12 hours ago
To be fair, one could indeed argue that I never asked to be mentioned on the blog for a knitting post.... But it is also true that I don't really mind.
 
3:19 PM
@BlueSoul oh, missed the cutie mark
 
JAD
\o/ yay for pedantry
 
@BlueSoul staff don't need consent, it's proved already.
You sign unwritten agreement when you submit something to SE.
 
@Shadow9 look, even in the "SE is Evil" scenario, it would be a little pathetic for me to ask to remove the name from the blog and to replace it with a link to the meta post where the same name is visible anyway. I was pointing out that.
 
I know
 
3:22 PM
I mean, ok - no one asked for permission to be mentioned as "more hats user" or "better artwork", "more rep" and so on... but that is a little lame to nitpick on.
 
But on the other hand, suppose you delete your account, or even just change name. The name you had when posting that answer will be forever in the blog.
 
Other concerns - like the dog ones - are a tad more compressible than this.
 
Could also be funny if a name with "SE is evil" or any other such form will make it to such a blog.
 
@Shadow9 that is a different thing - the name I had was clearly made up. If they mentioned something that possibly was a real name I would expect that one could ask to anonymize that.
I would also expect that if said user is annoyed by their real name being on the blog, they wouldn't use that as the display name for their user either, but errors happen.
 
@BlueSoul I'm not in favor of such things. If one use their real name as their display name, it means they're fine with having their real name exposed. Otherwise, simply don't use your real name. Of course to a limit, when bashing a user in the media, no names should be mentioned at all - nick or real.
 
3:27 PM
To be fair, the only thing that I would have added if I was SE in that regard was a notification that I was mentioned. Could even just be Yaakov sending a message over chat, no need for a specific feature.
 
Rob
Use the name: "RichardIsLongFor", problem solved.
 
@BlueSoul hehe. Funny, this makes me see Yaakov as the new Shog. Bridge between SE and the simple users.
 
@Shadow9 Yep, I also expect that BUT I am fine if the user later realize they prefer to hide the name for any reason.
 
@BlueSoul well same can apply also to non-real display names.... as they can lead to people finding them via Google.
(after they delete/change names)
 
@Shadow9 yep, that is also worth considering and to be fair I think that once someone got Shog to anonymize a blog post for that very reason.
 
Rob
3:31 PM
@BlueSoul Don't be a Ghyslain Raza
People will recognize the name.
 
@Shadow9 Of course. And if that was really what the company cared about, they would have done something about it.
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Q: Users need to be able to remove themselves and all their data from the site

terdonMany users no longer feel safe participating here and don't feel comfortable with SE having data about them. While there is a way to delete your account which will result in all your posts being dissociated and your username replaced with a generic "userNNNN", that isn't enough. Your old userna...

But since this is just a thinly veiled attempt to let the company unfeature posts that are not complimentary towards SO Inc, we get the silly excuse about suddenly caring about users' privacy.
 
Probably ^
 
To be fair, the CMs have been adamant that this isn't the case and that it isn't about hiding criticism. Cesar spent around 2 hours yesterday in the Teacher's Lounge trying to convince us. And I do believe he believes it is true. I just don't believe he (or any of the CMs) can speak for the company any more.
The CMs are decent, caring and empathetic people. So I am quite willing to believe that their only objective is to protect users from unwanted publicity. I just don't believe that the company cares about that for a second.
 
One thing I also don't get is how they choose who post answer to such a thing. Do they flip a coin, knowing the post will be downvoted to oblivion, and below? Usually in a real FAQ, the one who post the FAQ question also post the initial answer, then others edit it over time.
Not that it matters, just a bit odd.
 
I would just go "OK, so who still has a positive score on meta? You're up!"
 
3:40 PM
@Shadow9 you need two different users to be able to accept the answer and pin it to the top
 
@terdon lol
 
which is kinda important when the answer is likely to be downvoted
 
@SEisevil FAQ needs only one answer
Still, this is a non elegant hack
 
FAQ should also be community-wiki.
 
@Mithical true, guess they just forgot
(CW will act in their favor, stop the rep being drained)
 
3:42 PM
@Shadow9 I would assume they hope for a more positive response
 
Posting as FAQ also doesn't leave a good spot for feedback
 
@JourneymanGeek it's essentially "We're going to remove the featured tag by force, bypassing the moderators", how can it be accepted positively?
 
@Shadow9 well sorta
 
Everything else in there is just synthetic sugar and fake candies.
"getting consent"? Come on, who will do it? And that's just one examplle.
 
@Shadow9 there's a few wrinkles there, especially considering the earliest drafts
 
3:45 PM
If one leaves SE, it usually means they don't want to be bothered anymore, and asking "Hey, can I have your consent to post about you? You must also send it to SE to prove it's legit" is quite bothering.
 
@JourneymanGeek The earliest draft was "We will not allow mod resignation posts specifically to be featured for more than 24h because we said so".
 
@terdon you mean the previous published policy?
 
@Shadow9 s/because we said so/because we look bad
 
new terminology: GG = grease gun cooking.stackexchange.com/questions/105244/…
say it at the end of every game
 
And practically
I don't know how they could have handled that without looking bad
 
3:51 PM
@user1306322 Should we add that trick to the "How to make a Parrot worry" handbook? Right next to "SE can also mean Square Enix"?
 
I had a phase in school where I intentionally misused common acronyms to mean different things technically in the dictionary, it was short-lived :p
 
@JourneymanGeek just letting the site mods decide and intervene only in extreme cases would be one way.
 
@JourneymanGeek need to find a reason to do that that A) isn't already covered by the existing be-nice policies and B) is about avoiding public image damage by bad advertisement.
 
@SEisevil yes. If we're talking about "earliest drafts"...
 
@Shadow9 that's typically what I expect should/will happen
 
3:53 PM
Although, perhaps "earliest daft" would be better.
 
and erf. there's a specific scenario that bothered people but I'm not sure if its public
 
@JourneymanGeek no? Everything points the contrary.
@user1306322 not ME?
 
@Shadow9 who is going to watch all the metas?
 
Muare? Mack?
 
3:55 PM
Basically, you need to find me an example of a post that does not damage SE reputation, should reasonably not be featured out of respect to the user but it is fine as a regular non featured post and doesn't seem a completely made up theoretical scenario
 
@JourneymanGeek I can think of one.
 
@Shadow9 over 170?
 
@user1306322 Millennium
 
so practically
only MSO and MSE features matter
 
@Shadow9 MillEnium??
 
3:56 PM
@BlueSoul Yes, that's what we've asked for. We haven't been shown any. The best they've come up with was the featured post about Robert Cartaino being fired. I can understand that someone might not want the fact that they were fired publicized, OK.
 
(ok I can't spell)
 
@user1306322 better than Aluminium
 
@terdon and frankly that is something they could have literally asked the MSE mods to remove
 
Of course, if that were the case, Robert could have just asked someone to unfeature, or if the company actually cared, they wouldn't have publicly removed his diamond. But whatever.
@JourneymanGeek yeah, that
 
It would have been dumb
but it would have happened
 
4:03 PM
@terdon and that is also the reason I posted this reply I already mentioned a little ago
 
@BlueSoul yeah, good points. That were made and ignored in the mod Teams discussion.
They did backpedal enormously from the original announcement, at least. So that's something.
 
@terdon I'm pretty sure this is one of those things legal insisted on in some form
only... knowing meta as it is now
the end result would be even more visibility, not less
as featured posts I had a better ability to manage the conversation (and I don't think anyone had anything bad to say about Robert anyway) - as opposed to people angry at why it was not featured. It turned what could have been a pretty bitter event into a rememberance of folks who contributed a lot to the community
 
I guess all further featured posts about staff or mods leaving can be titled "Top contributor is leaving SE" to avoid names :p Is that better in terms of safeguarding people's identity? Yes. PR-wise? hmm...
 
@terdon they won't care about the crap directly, they'll care about the bad PR of having users complain about the crap and of news sites running articles about a strike
And... the simple threat of that might be enough to cause a difference even before anything goes into action.
 
@Mithical If that happens, yes. Don't get me wrong, I'm all for the initiative (and would strongly support extending it beyond SO). I just fear that setting a specific end date might be self defeating
 
4:16 PM
yea I would not make it time limited, that would reduce the threat level significantly
 
The company has shown that they don't care about anything besides SO. And I think it'd be a bit too hard on the other sites to strike like that, given the general low state of moderation.
 
Yeah, true. Focusing on SO makes sense. No argument there.
 
other sites can probably keep moderation on imo
 
@terdon The strike letter itself does not specify an end date.
Only the "internal" coordination documents do.
 
Ah. Good.
I'm just saying don't end it before you're sure it's had some visible effect, that's all.
 
4:19 PM
Yeah... but the other side of that is that it may be too difficult to bounce back after too long a period. With ~13,600 flags a week on SO, a week off is already going to make things difficult for afterwards.
 
Also a valid point. :/
 
@user1306322 when the unfeature Feature post about firing / resignations after 24h incident first happened, someone said "do not try to outrule a Dev".
 
out-ruleslaywer :)
 
one could argue that a post about "Shog was fired" could be easily twisted as "SE is one CM down after internal staff reduction" and no name or single out would be made. Would fit the rules .... and same bad publicity would be made.
 
4:22 PM
@BlueSoul or something more sensational
 
do we know what the company wants from the community, presently?
like I'm open to figuring out the ways to give them what they want, but I gotta know what they want first
 
If I am to be direct, right now the focus seems to be cleaning up the public image of the company.
 
without the corporate veil of lies or marketing fluff
well, sure, we can help with that
just do any of the things we've posted on meta for the last year
but they don't want that (apparently, at least that's how I interpret them not doing any of community propositions)
 
SE had been portrayed as rude, unwelcoming and such for a lot of time.
I mean, there are even MEMES.
 
badge icons borkd
 
4:27 PM
If anyone has never seen THIS image, I suggest you read it fully. It is a made up mook of a made up SO post. It is a parody.
 
that's pronounced mee-mees, right?
 
@BlueSoul I think this is only true of SO
SE sites are actually radically friendlier than SO
 
But... it gives you a clear idea of HOW SO is perceived by some users.
 
well, SO is not the entire network of sites and people constantly forget that
 
And to be fair, I seen a lot of the issues the picture parodies pop up a lot.
But SO is the one most know.
 
4:28 PM
if I could just take all of the SE sites and move them to a safe place, away from SO...
 
Anyway, what I mean is that the picture is the image SO - and SE by extension has in the eyes of many potential users - and probably some EX users too.
It is reasonable that SE would want to improve on that.
 
@user1306322 ironically
we're safe until we matter I suspect
 
does anyone actually care about the rest of the SE sites in the company?
 
Problem is that like I said multiple times before it seems like there are two forces moving in the company.
A minor force that wants to fix the issues because they care about those, and another much bigger one that need those to be fixed to improve public image and income.
Sadly most actions seems to be driven by the second force - the first one has its hand tied and seem to have to follow orders - or else.
 
I think over time most smaller SE sites will get closed for lack of usage because new users would likely go to non-SO network Q&As for the same topics which will have better moderation and be much more active
 
4:33 PM
@user1306322 actually nothing much wrong with our moderation model IMO
 
And there is the issue. The solution is obviously found in Kindness, Love, Care, whateveryouwanttocallit......
 
its the only reason everything hasn't fallen to chaos
 
but mechanical "because we need to" care won't cut out.
It is empty.
 
@JourneymanGeek I mean in terms of there being any activity which would necessitate there being a mod, and some SE sites currently don't have mods
 
and as a result some of the effort to fix real issues end up to focus on the monetary "how can this be handled to gain more money / lose less" front instead that actually fixing the issue.
 
4:35 PM
the threshold isn't really high
current moderation problems exist mostly (or solely) because of the company's public image (being evil)
 
@user1306322 actually
its less a moderation problem than communications issues
 
the only site with a somewhat real problem I know is Ru.SO but that's their problem, not mine
and what a surprise -- the root cause of it is pre-existing agreement between the owners of a former separate programming Q&A site in russian
dat iron fist rules us all into the ground
 
@user1306322 bah. As I said, problems exist. Take the welcoming wagon. I personally saw user being harassed on the site and in the chat for too long.
 
@YaakovEllis I can understand that -- that happened to moderators too when we were told what the policy was without being able to buy into it. I feel for the situation; but that's a red flag. If something has gotten to that point, it's a sign to look deeper into why.
 
One female user I only knew by name even left because she was constantly mocked because "female devs are inferior"
 
4:46 PM
i mean... what did the "welcoming wagon" do to help that situation?
 
exactly.
 
it didn't make anything that wasn't already across the line across the line
 
The welcome wagon in the end fixed nothing.
 
and "Meta is unwelcoming" is a bit too simplistic a model. Sort of like "they hate us for our freedoms".
 
instead of starting to remove the bad apples.... we made a very detailed document that described when apples are bad.
SO USEFUL. Because I really needed to be told that mocking an user for their gender identity is bad.
 
4:48 PM
I have to ask: is there a community friendly enough for the staff who don't like going to meta to say "ok, now this is a good community"?
because I don't think it is a real place
 
And obviously, how that evolved? In a lawyer discussion about "yep but if you take this rule out of context and put it into this case it does not make sense" or "yep but that is too restrictive".
 
One of the major issues is the people who really endeared trust and worked to build that trust are gone. That's currency you can't get back quickly, and you almost have to overshare to even approximate getting it back in a reasonable timeframe.
 
and the heart of what we should have done was lost under piles of laws talks.
 
But, I can say this without hesitation, Stack Overflow as a culture has changed from "default open", to whatever it is now.
 
have to go for now.... later folks.
 
4:50 PM
o/
 
Will continue my rants another time.
 
Looking forward to them
 
I would like to hear/see what staff thinks is the ideal mode of communication between them and users, which still accomplishes both sets of goals
 
I will just repeat what I said. We need to help the ones who need help a little more and write rule books a lot less....
 
maybe it's possible and we can both adjust to that
but there needs to be some sort of specific example, not just vague descriptions
for example, post a mockup of a meta discussion on some issue, like how to use tag wikis or something
we don't usually have frictions on these topics though but still
(actually none of the technical and content policy topics seem to generate problems)
ignore politics until you can't?
I'd rather not have to ignore them, on a different platform
 
Rob
4:56 PM
There is the sadness of realizing that their great idea is a duplicate, posted a half dozen years ago, and has garnered less than 2 dozen upvotes during that time.
 
I think managing a large internet community is just that kind of a job that requires every staff member who makes decisions affecting its future to be proficient in community management to a certain degree, you just can't ignore this set of skills and hope for the best
now that they're unwilling to perform these CM duties, and they fired some of the top CM employees, look what's happening
how are you gonna make good milk if nobody in your company likes or wants anything to do with milk?
 
eh, that's not really fair.
 
how u gon garten kinders in a kindergarten without garteners :p
 
you're assuming they don't have that skill set
 
occam's razor
 
Rob
5:02 PM
It's not as though the users whom purport expertise in the area of Community Management actually visit and participate in the site dedicated to the purpose. The visits and questions per day is dismal.
 
yea I've been accused of saying staff are incompetent before, but the only way I can measure their competence is through their actions, sorry if that offends anyone
maybe investors saw dust in the moneybags and took over the reins and are now disallowing anyone from using their skills, I don't know!
what I know is, whatever they are doing in 2020 is much worse than whatever they were doing in 2015 or before
just look into your history books, do the same things, see what happens, it shouldn't be worse
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Q: What should moderators do if a user joins the site just to share negativity on meta?

Nicolas ChabanovskyWe have a network of 100+ Q&A sites where each site has an associated meta site. A user signs up on a new site and immediately starts posting questions on meta about how poorly the site engine works, how hostile the company towards the users, how horrible moderation is, and etc. In other words, t...

current answer has -1 score, if anyone cares to propose a different answer or edits, feel free
just for kicks I'll post an answer of my own, since it should be pretty obvious what you should do
 
Hey, I might be able to answer that...
 
most of us might
 
5:22 PM
just click delete
it's easy
 
Not necessarily.
 
"What do you do when you don't like the cut of someone's jib?" :p
I was planning to drink a cup of coffee 2 hours ago
 
CB.SE feels wierdly like mod team but public :D
 
it is and it should be
 
5:40 PM
the way you wrote your answer... I've read it before
 
@user1306322 They've said it. They believe user surveys through "The loop", and user interviews are the best ways to get feedback. meta is dead last for them.
 
Either you both write quickly or you wrote much shorter answers than I did...
 
@GeorgeStocker well, users who will be participating in the loop are some mysterious group of hand-picked users (I read it as nobody, they made it up because the community cannot verify that this group exists by design), so that doesn't count as involving community (publicly)
@Mithical ye yours is pretty long compared to ours
Nicolas is gonna be surprised by 3 sudden answers :D
 
@user1306322 Money.
 
what for?
can we skip the middle-money and just give them the end result?
 
5:55 PM
No; they're a for-profit company, they can't accept donations.
 
then I guess our goals have been at odds since the formation of the LLC
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Q: How to de-escalate a situation when a user balances on the edge but others who want to correct them go beyond the rules?

Nicolas ChabanovskyThe described situation happens on a Q&A site. An active user spends a lot of time on posting comments with recommendations on how to improve others’ posts. The comments are kind of short and even a bit brutal. These comments get rude or abusive flags from time to time. Comments themselves do not...

this one I don't have much experience on
but it is a problem from what I've seen
you'd have to get details on it in private
 
The approach to that seems rather straightforward to me
 
personally I can't deal with experts who think they are so high and above everyone else that they deserve the right to be rude, and for me it's simpler to just lose them as contributors than to try and re-educate them to behave according to normal polite people etiquette, but then again I'm not a community pillar or anything, so this is just my tired back-office employee point of view :p
well, there is value in putting in effort to keep an expert and make them behave, it's just too much for me personally
I value the work of others who attempt to do this but I can't do it myself
if the primary goal of a site is to retain experts at all costs... being unfriendly like that might be the price
we kinda live in a world where a lot of experts suffer hardships and abuse throughout their training and career that turns them bitter
it's a global human problem, not something you can easily solve at scale
 
that's one helluva url
 
6:10 PM
@user1306322 From FB :P
 
ye and it doesn't work without the tracking trail
is the list of the users who closed a post supposed to be hidden until a certain rep threshold?
communitybuilding.stackexchange.com/questions/3172/… I don't see a username on the post proper but if you click the timeline link, it's there
 
@user1306322 OK I made a copy:
 
thancc
I used to ask if I can ask a question, but after an especially annoying mathematics professor finally drove me over the edge, I started asking if I could ask two
too much sarcasm in the math zone of academia
oh man I remember that discussion
it's wild how professors can basically bully students scot-free
where's the meta to complain on about that :D
 
Ask Sheldon :-P
 
6:45 PM
@user1306322 Yeah. On the other hand, it's also wild how your perspective of that changes once you start reaching the other side. Students are no fun either.
 
@terdon Especially the "stubborn" ones aren't ...
 
🚽
 
@user400654 It looks like you're exaggerating that meme. It becomes forseeable very much :P
 
What does it mean, anyway?
That everything is going down the drain? I keep seeing it here but I've never understood it.
 
7:01 PM
I am not even sure it constitutes a broadly accepted meme.
 
Heh, given that what I see is this, I assume the rest of you are seeing something different:
 
That's what I see too
 
I see a toilet
 
@Mithical I think Windows people will see something more complex. Perhaps a Japanese toilet?
Or maybe smelloticons®?
 
@terdon its a slightly more shaded toilet
 
7:14 PM
Well, that's disappointing. No flush animation? No buzzing flies?
 
oh, no, i needed to, err, well yea
 
just another way in which Windows is disappointing
windows + toilet = bad
 
@terdon no
 
i just type :toilet: and press spacebar
 
@terdon ^
 
7:18 PM
@user400654 That's probably not always the appropriate reaction.
 
it wasn't a reaction
at least, not to the existing conversation
 
@JourneymanGeek Oh. That's far less visually offensive than I expected.
@user400654 Then perhaps it was over sharing? :P
 
I think he just posts it at random times :D
 
^Sounds like that. Flush from time to time :D
 
@πάνταῥεῖ flush command ...
 
7:39 PM
@JourneymanGeek I assume he uses it whenever he uses the actual toilet to let us all know.
 
🦵
 
@user400654 yummy tofu!
 
Just noticed the new privacy policy refers to the Stack Overflow network of sites :/
 
New privacy policy?
 
7:40 PM
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Q: Privacy Policy Updates (Feb 2020)

David FullertonWe want to share with you that we have updated our Privacy Policy to keep up with the ever evolving data privacy laws and regulations concerning our global community of users and our sites. We also took the opportunity to review and remove language describing data usage that we currently do not ...

 
Ah. Hadn't seen that yet.
 
@JourneymanGeek That's ... something.
I wonder if that is new.
 
i mean
the company is called stackoverflow, not stackexchange
 
@user400654 the company is called Stack Exchange, doing Business as Stack Overflow
but it has always been the Stack Exchange Network
 
> Site Design / Logo © 2020 Stack Exchange Inc;
shrug
 
7:45 PM
Just call it Stack * Inc; and call it a day
 
Jay Hanlon on September 15, 2015
We are Stack Overflow You may know us from such popular websites as Stack Overflow Q&A, Stack Overflow Careers, The Stack Exchange Q&A Network, and most of your Google search results. tl;dr – We’re changing our company name. Here’s what’s changing: As of today, our company will be known as Stack Overflow. Our logo is […]
dunno why they kept the footer
 
@user400654 cause the official legal company name did not change
 
Yeah I was under the impression the legal name was still SEI.
 
I was under the impression both were legal, valid names of the company.
 
Impossible! :-)
 
7:50 PM
can y'all help me out here? 10 minutes until decision time: twitter.com/Yaakov/status/1227306374549442560
 
@YaakovEllis I think Cat has a point :D
 
> As new generations of people grow up on the internet, old habits — searching through textbooks or how-to books, or asking friends—will fade away. People will come to expect that any objective question can be instantly answered with a Google search.
 
@AndrasDeak that's reasonably true
 
@Mithical the second sentence is almost a non sequitur...people have forgotten how to read stuff, but they haven't learned how to google...
OK, the ones that end up asking questions on SO
 
7:56 PM
Also, reading back through that blog post... I miss Jay.
 
@Mithical I suspect he, and his role might have had a huge part to play in dealing with/mitigating a lot of the issues we have now
 
@YaakovEllis hope your day gets better soon! That looks yum
 
 
1 hour later…
9:12 PM
🤔
 
@πάνταῥεῖ did you seriously gave a spammer the welcome message?
 
@rene Apparently. I realized that too late, sorry.
 
np.
 
yeah, i was gonna flag it as spam, but then saw your comment and thought maybe i was missin somethin
 
wha where?
 
9:22 PM
It's gone.
 
hahaha
you can't say they aren't welcoming?
even spammers need some lovin.
 
@SEisevil network wide or just MSE?
 
@JourneymanGeek Just MSE, I never changed it anywhere else
 
Done
and as a value add, I refreshed your chat account :D
 
thanks
 
9:38 PM
Thats an easy one. The rest will need to wait for me to finish my shift and get some sleep :D
 
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