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12:08 AM
So a simple undeniable fact is a lot of folks are hurting
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Until such a point of time we can fix that, speculation helps little
 
 
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1:52 AM
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Q: Change the phrasing "provide answers that don't require clarification from the asker" in the low-quality canned comment to something less confusing

Tanner SwettWhen you review an answer in the low-quality post queue, one of the comment templates is: This does not provide an answer to the question. Once you have sufficient reputation you will be able to comment on any post; instead, provide answers that don't require clarification from the asker. I...

Is there anything I can (and should) do to get this some attention from the staff?
Or more attention from the community first, I guess, since there isn't a clear consensus here yet.
 
@TannerSwett meta.stackexchange.com/questions/306397/… though it might take longer than the usual 6-8 weeks due to recent events
 
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> provide the best answer you can without asking for clarification.
Not the intent of the current message.
 
@TannerSwett Put a bounty on it for community input
 
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The current message says: if you can't answer without a clarification, do not. Look at the questions that do not need clarification.
The proposed version is an invitation to guess-answer.
 
@410 That's a good point.
 
 
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3:21 AM
Okay, let me try to figure out what the message should say.
Verbosely, what we want to say is: "If you can provide a good answer to this question without asking for clarification (which is generally done by providing an answer which covers all of the various reasonable possibilities for what the asker's situation may be), do that; otherwise, just don't post an answer. "
Verbosely, what we want to say is: "If you can provide a good answer to this question without asking for clarification (which is generally done by providing an answer which covers all of the various reasonable possibilities for what the asker's situation may be), do that; otherwise, just don't post an answer."
(Did that message go through twice? I don't think I sent it twice.)
 
@TannerSwett Yep, it's there twice, even when I reload the page. If you want, you should be able to delete one (hover over the message and there's a drop-down button on the left).... and now too late. There's only 2 minutes to edit or delete.
 
The current wording which is intended to communicate that is "provide answers that don't require clarification from the asker."
 
I agree that the current wording could be better.
 
I'll leave 'em both. I don't think there's any harm in having a duplicate message.
I'm just trying to think of something better than the current wording, and also better than my original suggestion.
 
Only a moderator can delete or edit a message after 2 minutes. A moderator or room owner can move it out of the room to another room. Those are the only things that chat permits to be done.
 
3:29 AM
We could say, "Skip over any questions that you can't answer without asking for clarification." But... that sounds bad.
We don't want to say anything along the lines of "your post was bad, and please don't even try to make a better one."
Maybe I'll do more reviews and see what I end up writing in response to comments-as-answers.
 
It could be something like:
"This does not provide an answer to the question. Answers should only be used to provide an actual answer to the question. Requesting clarification of the question should be done in a comment. Once you have sufficient reputation, you will be able to comment on any post. Until then, please feel free to answer questions which don't require clarification."
 
Yeah, that pretty much seems like a strict improvement over the current phrasing.
The current phrasing says "provide answers that don't require clarification," but that's... a confusingly creative use of words at best and outright wrong at worst. It should be... well, exactly what you just wrote: "answer questions that don't require clarification."
Can I go ahead and post a second self-answer with another suggested phrasing?
 
Yes, you are permitted to do so. Alternately, you can change your current answer, if it is something you no longer support. It really hasn't been seen by that many people to feel that it's set in stone.
If there had been lots of votes on the answer, then I'd recommend leaving it as-is, at least the substantial portions of it. Right now, it's new enough such that most of the people that will read it haven't seen it yet. So, personally, I'd go ahead and change it, if you no longer desire the wording you originally suggested.
 
4:09 AM
!!/watch Mr Steven Robert
 
@Stormblessed You don't have code privileges, but I've created PR#3340 for you.
 
 
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5:28 AM
@OptimusPrime yes but we're not allowed to discuss it here, feel free to ask on Twitter or WhatsApp
@JNat thanks x 2 :)
@rene wasn't available for a while...
@rene poof
 
@ShadowTheCoffeeWizard yeah, I got that you had a special holiday.
 
@rene gone
@rene nah not so special, just looong ;)
 
Did you spend your time well with family and friends?
 
6:05 AM
What on earth happened over the weekend
 
Something between mods and SE.
 
@rene Tavern became TL for a while?
 
I really respect monica and reading that post is really damning
SE better have a really good explaination for this
 
@rene define "well" ;)
Wait what? Monica? checking
 
@ShadowTheCoffeeWizard kind of
 
6:08 AM
Unless they have some really good explaination for this its time for civil disobedience
 
ugh no diamond(s)... yeah that sucks... got lots to read I guess but no time. :(
 
@ShadowTheCoffeeWizard spend time together, eat, drink, drunk
 
@rene nah just two wine glasses yesterday night, not enough to get drunk
 
You need to work on your wine in take ;)
 
dang... one dog also without diamond... going to get drunk
At least he keeps his other diamond...
@rene if it's allowed/possible for TL;DR feel free to fill me in... maybe in Den? Thanks in advantage.... :)
 
6:15 AM
this is bad then
I come back from my weekend and SE is on fire even more then the welcome wagon debacle, by a lot
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@ShadowTheCoffeeWizard done
 
To my knowledge they've never lost so many mods before
 
6:57 AM
watching stack exchange inc piss away the last few bits of goodwill and mutual respect it had with its core community is both deeply painful and incredibly amusing
painful, because i consider myself part of that core community who helped to build these sites into greatness
amusing, because this has been the obvious end goal since spolsky's "summer of love" post, and every time i've called it people have called me a pessimist and told me that i'm the one who's wrong, and that it'll get better
 
A question of time we see a SO Fork
 
@IanKemp To be fair I wasnt expecting anything like this
 
@Magisch i don't want to be rude, but... i believe you, and many others, were incredibly naive
 
I was expecting the welcome wagon thing to be more competently done and I wasn't expecting what happened this weekend, which looks from the outside tantamount to going at your own leg with a chainsaw from SE's perspective
 
when you combine the worst parts of human nature with capitalism, the outcome is always terrible
 
7:02 AM
talk about cutting off your hand to spite the face jeez. At least I would have expected them to prepare a public statement rather then the ominous bad faith potshot taking answer it got so far
 
why would you expect them to do anything different than the half-assed approach they have always taken?
 
that answer is probably the worst part of this whole saga. I expected a lot better from them then unqualified, non backed up ominous potshots at someone who's clearly been mistreated in the eye of the community
that is almost unforgivable
 
they've been getting away with this BS for so long that they had no reason to assume that escalating would have any ill effects, so they escalated
 
I wouldn't call the welcome wagon getting away with
 
i'm sure today or tomorrow we will see a half-hearted apology, and maybe a retraction, and possibly a restoration of monica's mod powers
 
7:05 AM
I imagine that was a rather unpleasant few months for everyone involved on the company side
 
and they will hope that is enough to make this all go away
but we can't let that happen
 
Î dont think any apology is forthcoming
have you read sara's post?
If it wasn't locked i would R/A flag that
 
yes
tacticly accusing monica of something when they know damn well they can't share specifics. This kind of "trust us, they're bad" bullshit is exactly not allowed around here and is the primary reason why mods refrain from taking these kind of potshots even when people complain about e.g. suspensions. I would expect them to know a lot better
 
you forget that they are the ones with ultimate power. ultimate power doesn't need to justify itself to anybody, nor abide by the rules. rules are for plebs.
 
7:12 AM
meh, ultimate is relative
 
Nah, we, the userbase has the ultimative power. Without us, there wouldn't be something like SE inc. Until now, we lived with their decissions... but this can change
 
without us, there wouldn't be SE yes
but all of the relaxing of the content quality rules that we have tacitly allowed have now enabled the sites to have far more users and content than they would otherwise have
 
they mess with us at their peril
and when mods are dropping like flies there's a tipping point
 
not all the mods and community builders will leave or be fired - enough that it will show, but not enough to bring the sites to a screeching halt
 
fair enough :/
 
7:16 AM
and there will always be people who are willing to take a diamond and comply with whatever SE tells them to do, because imaginary internet points
so regardless of what we do, i believe that SE inc will survive, and continue to grow, much in the way that experts exchange has done. not growing by quality, but by quantity. enough to keep the investors and the power-hungry at SE happy.
the time when we should have rebelled, when we could have brought the network to its knees, was when the summer of love post appeared
but we did not, and so today here we site
i'm not particularly interested in seeing this play out, apart from it confirming my suspicions. what i am interested is knowing where y'all decide to migrate to. so unless or until these chat rooms get shut down for incitement, i'll lurk a little
 
@IanKemp i'm keenly interested in someone making a fork, tbh
 
me too
 
@Magisch i would love that, but i'm leery of how such a thing would play out. what i will say is that if the rules are pre-summer of love, i'd be keenly interested
 
In some ways this happens to all tech companies sooner or later
 
On the downside, it's illegal to just go and set the world on fire. On the upside, the world seems quite keen on setting itself on fire all by itself while also insisting that there's nothing burning and even if it is, it's not their fault.
 
7:33 AM
The faint hope I had that cooler heads will prevail and all of this welcoming debacle works out in the end has been thoroughly shattered
 
That would be nice, yes
 
@JohnDvorak sounds like Israel's PM who is accused for year in serious crimes of bribery and corruption and always has one single reply to all the accusers: "There will be nothing because there was nothing". Well, that's the translation, sounds better in Hebrew...
 
@ShadowTheCoffeeWizard sounds like similar american and british pms...
 
hehe yeah... world leaders these days are almost like the same person.
 
the same, terrible, person
 
7:38 AM
Which gets elected in democratic elections, and that's the worst part
In our case he now can't assemble a government anymore, so Israel is stuck in endless elections loop.
 
I'm Czech, and our president doesn't bribe get bribed (or at least that I know of). Instead he spends his days in the hospital, from all sorts of possibly-alcohol-related health issues.
 
We had elections two weeks ago, and will have again in few months.
@JohnDvorak dunno what's worse...
 
@JohnDvorak all things considered that probably makes him one of the less bad leaders
britian is currently disintegrating, america has been a circus going for nearly 4 years, and other places in europe aren't really that stable either
 
To be fair though, the position of a Czech president was never really one of power, even if the one sitting there is of mental capacity - and the one sitting there for four terms = 16 years (even though the limit is 2 terms, the country has been renamed in the meantime, making the first two not count) has actually been quite good.
That was eight years ago, though
 
The reason why Monica was fired has been out and clear. She had a different view point from what the director of Q&A had, and was therefore thrown out like street garbage. The director has repeatedly demonstrated that they don't care about the community's feelings. There used to be a time when users were free to oppose whatever the company had done, and were able to remain on the site. But in the past few days, the Stack Exchange staff have tried to take down posts on MSE and Stack Moderators teams which were focused on the resignations, and suspended a user for posting that. — Bhargav Rao 7 hours ago
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7:44 AM
Also to be fair, our president is by far from the only one that ... likes to drink
 
Bhargav is a trusted moderator and has been nothing but level headed in his every interaction I've ever seen him perform. Hearing this damning asessment almost makes whatever they'll say irrelevant. Time for consequences instead
 
@Magisch 100%, Bhargav has always been extremely cool calm collected impartial and fair in the face of the worst of the welcome wagaon, to hear him this angry means things are really bad
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I trust bhargav more then I do SE staff right now
 
i trust ANY of the moderators more than any SE staff (except for maybe Jeff Atwood). always have.
 
@IanKemp this is an anomaly.
 
7:53 AM
and the reason for that is that mods have been chosen by the community, where community = people who give a damn about SE site quality (i.e. NOT the screaming help vampire hordes)
whereas we have no insight as to how SE employees are chosen, and the current meltdown suggests their process is horribly flawed
 
fun fact, TWP has only 2 mods left
 
@Magisch sorry, TWP = ?
 
Probably "the workplace"?
 
ah k
i'm very SO-focused so i don't know all the acronyms from the others
 
> Though once our lands, a pale being lays claim to the caverns ahead.
> It may appear benevolent but it does not share our dream.
> Be wary to wander that place.
 
7:58 AM
Same, just looked at the list here^^ meta.stackexchange.com/questions/333965/…
 
fuuu, only just read Aza's resignation post
now i'm angry
i'm not lgbt, and i know there are people who get triggered at the slightest thing
but i absolutely abhor intolerance
and what that post is saying is that SE is happy to allow intolerance
that is exactly the opposite of welcoming
 
9:02 AM
Robert Harvey is also stepping down with meta post meta.stackoverflow.com/q/389906/2427065 and the director behind this revealed herself there meta.stackoverflow.com/a/389908/2427065
 
@Magisch honestly? One I've gotten some rest - I really feel that for whatever good it does this is exactly the time SE needs those little nudges
In situations like this though people feel as helpless as they are angry
Unless all is really lost though
 
@JourneymanGeek You were one of the people I hoped would do that
 
@Magisch well i'm about as human as any of us
I don't even know where to start
 
far as I'm concerned, they're in a mess entirely of their own making
if not by bad faith, then by bungled execution
 
@Magisch yup
 
9:11 AM
will be interesting to see if they can dig themselves out of it, but my hopes of that happening under current leadership are slim
I don't know what tought process went into that official answer, but I'm appalled.
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But I look around and I see a lot of people trying to do what they feel is right. There's a lot of people hurting
Its just too big and messy
 
yeah and now what
compared to this the welcome wagon and the twitter fiasco are both minor disagreements
 
if I knew I'd ask for my diamond back and get to work
 
no envy for the CMs
they are in a monumental mess most likely none of their own making
 
user206222
Linking Word to the Wise in my resignation wasn't an accident. Though... I'm thinking about what's happened in a very different way than most people, I think.
 
10:29 AM
Quiet a circus going on coming back from the weekend. Wonder where this will lead us.
 
@Luuklag exactly where we let it lead us
 
Well, I think it will depend on what a certain Tim and Sara's next move will be.
If any
 
@Luuklag well and where we choose to let it go too
I've been saying this a lot these few days
a lot of folks are hurt. A lot of folks are unhappy too
I'm not sure there's any great way to make things better
 
Yeah that's true. I too doubt that there is a (quick) fix for the mess we are in.
 
No, there isn't
 
10:34 AM
I think both ends of the bargain lost sight of one another
 
@Luuklag that's a pretty good summation of the issue
 
The company drifting away from the user base in an effort to write black figures. Since well angel investers don't stick around for ever.
 
and generally folks losing sight of each other
@Luuklag maybe
but that's out of our hands
 
And a userbase that might be too attached to what they have, and aren't willing to move in any direction.
Add the total lack of communication between the two
 
@Luuklag and often what we have can be a good thing
 
10:36 AM
and you've got a big swamp
@JourneymanGeek Agreed, but what we have can not always be what we can keep. If there are no longer finances to run things as they are being run right now, things need to change wether we like it or not. And seeing the changes that are made regarding advertising, and legal issues I think this is the case.
I also noticed somewhere in an interview one of the founders mentioned an IPO someday. So I bet theyre ramping up for that. And for that to be succesfull you need revenue.
 
@Luuklag I honestly think that the advertising mess, and the licencing mess are kinda not really important or related to this
or more precisely, its different sets of people trying to do the best with what they're expected to do
 
@JourneymanGeek It are drops in an already quite filled bucket.
 
@Luuklag I hear a lot of good noises from people in the community team
Stuff like "the community isn't a cost center"
I'd love people to realise that the core communities are an asset
 
@JourneymanGeek I'd love to see that written out by the Team somewhere.
 
@Luuklag One of our current CMs said it
And that's a great starting point for a big fix
There's a value in the time, knowledge and effort we put in. The adspace on SE wouldn't have value without the content.
Careers wouldn't have anything to sell it without the SO name
 
10:44 AM
I agree. But as long as it stays one CM, were still going nowhere. It needs to move up at least one or two levels into the company. I think they should re-think their priorities. Just as they had to do about a year ago.
 
@Luuklag one of the benefits of being a MSE mod is I see a fair bit of them
I have faith in our CMs
 
What about directors?
 
@AndrasDeak I've not really interacted with them
Well, I guess Tim counts. And I'd say he's a standup guy
 
@AndrasDeak If you talk about Sara, all I've read on the Meta's from her was well, not really displaying that she knows how the community is feeling right now. Mostly boilerplate answers that lack any real answer if you ask me. Not sure if she is able to disclose anything beyond what she said though?
 
@Luuklag and honestly - I'm not sure what a good public way to deal with it would be would be
 
10:54 AM
I think directing the focus towards sara herself is a red herring
making it personal never serves anything except hardening fronts and further disenfranchisement
 
A core of how we've always been asked to do things is "Its about the action, not the person"
and no matter what you did, there's the prospect that you could overcome it and be a better person
That's precious to me
and honestly - it isn't even about the action now
its about how it affects people in my community
 
@Magisch I don't have anything against Sara as a person. But you can't deny that she is (a / the) public face of the company in regards to the community. So for most people she can't be anything else that "the company".
 
The action can be reversed, but first the will has to be found in the proper places.
 
and "a director" screwed Monica over from what I could tell
 
@AndrasDeak I'm not fond of that turn of phrase
 
10:57 AM
it's not personal, it's just a statement of fact
 
fact: "Angel" is a hebrew word for "Messenger".
Fact: Sara is a messenger.
 
@JourneymanGeek Sorry. A person with "director" in the title, according to an edit
 
I would really like for us all to avoid making it personal
 
@AndrasDeak Someone I respect is hurt
 
but I agree, this is not about the person who screwed Monica over, it's about the company that screwed her over
 
10:58 AM
@JourneymanGeek Neither do I, but from what I understand from Monica's post a public appology would be a place to start. But for all the "directors" I've dealt with in the past I have little hopes for something like this turning out this way. Seeing they are usually very keen on being right.
 
(and not just her, I know)
 
@AndrasDeak and that people got screwed over
 
well, yeah
 
@JourneymanGeek Treated unfairly would be the propper frase if you ask me.
 
And honestly
I was furious when I heard about it
 
10:59 AM
If they insist on being right, they won't be able to maintain any real number of moderators
 
@Luuklag there's many things about this that I feel was done badly
but ... they're done
 
meh, it won't be hard finding mods who don't care or even agree (whatever it is they were disagreeing about)
 
@AndrasDeak they'd be useless
 
I'm hoping that some reflection is forthcoming and this doesn't remain the state of things
 
@JourneymanGeek For what? Deleting NAA? Finding voting rings?
 
11:00 AM
@AndrasDeak Moderation isn't mechanics
its people
 
@Magisch I expect doubling down. But I hope for something better.
 
@AndrasDeak Finding voting rings can be automated by a script, and anyone can be trained to recognize them. The part of moderation that keeps this place from descending to reddit levels is harder and more intractable then mechanics.
 
@JourneymanGeek meh. How much do you think the corporation is affected by moderators being leaders slash guiders of communities, and how much is it affected by the janitorial work?
I have an opinion but of course you have much more perspective to answer that
 
@AndrasDeak Moderators are human exception handlers
The best moderators are friends and mentors.
I don't need a diamond or a flag queue to do that
I need influence
I need people to know that they can go "Hey geek? We have a problem" and help deal with it before it becomes a bigger problem
 
Friends and mentors to whom? I wouldn't think mods take the hands of New Users and lead them to the light. At least not from what I can see on SO.
 
11:03 AM
@AndrasDeak If nothing else, the core of the community
who're the folks who will be doing that - if they felt a new user needed an extra nudge
Community watches out for each other
 
Yeah, my point is SO Inc. doesn't have a price tag assigned to "community". Are we even stakeholders in their eyes? I honestly can't tell.
 
@AndrasDeak Well I don't feel they do
Certainly not right now
 
So yeah, we agree. Moderators are crucial for the community. Not for the company.
 
@AndrasDeak honestly at times like this, the company can go hang, or whatever.
Individuals in the company do care and try to reach out though
 
Well sure. I'm just saying that "they'd be useless" is irrelevant for the company
 
11:06 AM
but honestly a lot of the time we don't have the leverage to do squat
 
@AndrasDeak But the community, or at least the users who make up the community, are essential to the company, because without them there wouldn't be a company. So in that sense they are probably better of realising they should value moderators, and the time they invest.
 
@AndrasDeak until we have the next twitter storm
 
anyways, I'm off doing some real work now ;)
 
@JourneymanGeek can't wait
 
Or some other incident that overwhelms the company and makes them look bad
@AndrasDeak I like this place
I don't want those
I don't want this either.
 
11:07 AM
What do I have to search to find a good postmortem of that Twitter storm I've read multiple times?
 
@Luuklag they are probably better off, but I doubt they do. The community is a tool, and maintaining it is a burden, and meta is the worst.
 
contrast with Jeff Atwood's era (at least what I can tell from remarks through time) which sounds like something genuinely community-embracing, even if not -driven
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@john ironically
I'd start with something Monica wrote
and I'd honestly follow up with this meta.stackexchange.com/questions/317087/…
@AndrasDeak I'm kinda torn on Atwood
 
What's an obnoxious DM sea lion?
 
11:11 AM
admittedly I don't have an educated impression of him
 
He's someone I respect a lot, and quite a few of the things he did probably are the only reason the community held together this long
@john a DM is a direct message on twitter
@AndrasDeak I'd say something I'd say of the people I seem to respect
He was opinonated, stubborn, and got things done.
 
Ah, I found the sealioning elswhere.
 
@john yeah, it's a reference to a comic
 
He could be a complete pain in the ass to deal with at times, but that was fine
 
it's more or less "badgering someone in a seemingly polite way", which is awesome because at one point you can always claim your opponents are sealioning you
 
11:12 AM
And despite all the respect I have for him
I'm not too sure he could have done better here
Some things would have been easier, some would have been harder
 
@JourneymanGeek sounds reasonable from what I can tell
 
But Jeff's not here now
 
I just read the comic, :D
 
and its not a tiny network of 3-5 sites
What worked when I was new and wandered into SU from /. wouldn't work now
 
reminds me of someone from r/programminglanguages :D
 
11:14 AM
Its tempting to see Jeff's reign with rose tinted glasses but things are very different, and in a few respects at least more complicated now
 
@john It's one of the funny terms people who consider themselves socially sensitive can use to describe "toxic" behaviour. It's right there with "mansplaining" and "techbro", typical example of when you're doing as bad as who you are up against in the name of good
 
@AndrasDeak On the other hand
totally happens
Thankfully I'm usually in a position to... erm...
 
What happens?
 
@AndrasDeak well what people describe as sea lioning
I've never been mansplained to yet, probably due to being a large brown dude.
 
Oh, yeah, it does. And also a lot of jerks mansplain and manspread and there are people who are very much adequate to label "techbro". On the flip side, "SJW" is also an existing entity, in an extreme manner. Using these labels, however, are in no way constructive, because they just drive any kind of wedge between people deeper, and frankly I find their prevalent use itself toxic.
first there's a lot of baggage around any such term, second a lot of people (especially the ones you would want to target with reasoning to help them change) will just close up and leave if you label them this way
 
11:21 AM
@AndrasDeak Lawful evil is the most dangerous of all evil.
 
Hello
 
@AndrasDeak and we are in complete agreement there
 
@AndrasDeak cbg, you're over here too!
 
11:22 AM
Oh and gaslighting.
 
@StephanS it would seem
 
But please do try that on SE chat.
We will throw the transcript in your face
 
@JourneymanGeek maybe
 
and then politely refresh your memory
then ask you to leave ;p
 
At least that's a psychological phenomenon. Accusing someone with that in an argument is of course a different matter.
 
11:23 AM
@AndrasDeak bit of a story there
Actually was great
So, unfortunately, I have a pesky need to sleep
and back then, I had a job that meant I could sleep at regular hours like an ordinary person.
So one night I go to sleep, come back, check the transcript and found one of my regulars apparently had been bullied by this creep.
I do not like this
Neither did one of my users who actually let me know this was going on
 
SU I take it?
 
So I reach out to her and go "Look, its up to you, if you want to come back, we'll keep an eye out for you"
she does, that guy tries to bully her again and we show him the door
then
... he tries to gaslight me
I have a memory like a sieve and a love of using the transcript
so I go "Actually - see that? That's not how it happens"
... he keeps digging deeper
I ask him to leave, he refuses so... we were a little more convincing than politely asking
THEN he turns up on another offsite chatroom and tries to carry on...
 
gaslight? I'm not familiar with that term.
 
I'm grateful to whoever brought it up honestly
Missing it would have been a failure
@AndrasDeak best chat war stories.
 
so just outright suspending people for 30 minutes is not a universal solution :P
 
11:29 AM
@AndrasDeak some people just don't get it when you do
And honestly
suspensions are not the only solution
 
I know
 
having a community that cares for each other and is aware is
But that's a very hard thing to forge.
 
Thank you Andras, you learn something new every day.
 
I can't take responsibility for RA being what it is
and don't tell them but they're a great example of what I wish every community would be like ;p
And quite frankly, what I'd hope/expect this place to be like eventually
(I'll take credit if it works out ;p)
But that support structure - that people knowing someone has their back is a critical part of the social contract
 
@JourneymanGeek RA?
 
11:34 AM
@AndrasDeak root access
 
aaah, I see
 
though in this case I refer to the SU main channel and the community in and around it
(And yes @M.A.R. - its not the wheelchair story ;p)
 
Wow, I can't believe how many SU are leaving after Monica.
 
@StephanS honestly - we're not directly affected for most part
 
I know, I'm just reading that post of 100k+ users saying they're leaving
 
11:39 AM
Ah
 
meh, most regulars (especially high-rep ones) are addicts
 
It's quite strange to see someones "last straw" being pulled and them being vocal about it.
that's true
 
in The Meta Room on Stack Overflow Chat, 2 mins ago, by jpmc26
Honestly, I'm just praying for a replacement. If something similar to SO with a few changes to handle the way information ages and better focus on curation were to spring up, I'd be gone in a heartbeat.
 
Oh, sure. To redirect the addiction. But SO is unique. And has insurmountable advantage in its field.
and without an alternative most addicts will stay or trickle back after a short hiatus
 
which is why the community really cares about keeping it that way.
 
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11:45 AM
Recovery is possible. I've been sober since Nov 15 of last year.
 
@AndrasDeak I'd argue, from experience though...
 
A few can leave, yeah. I'm talking about mass migrations.
 
@AndrasDeak although there's an addiction, I feel as though there's always the beaten wife that never returns to her abuser
 
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(The date of my last SO post). Had a few relapses before that, sure. But this period of sobriety feels different.
 
@410 you're here, aren't you?
 
11:46 AM
that if you're focused on getting an advantage from a good looking SO profile, your behaviour would be very different from either the person looking for the next problem solving fix, or someone who's an engaged, active part of the community
@AndrasDeak he's in denial ;p
 
the point is not answering on SO, it's about being emotionally involved
 
or found another fix
@AndrasDeak and folks who're hurt enough can and do leave
 
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Sure, the chatty chat. I disengaged from main sites.
 
most successful cold turkeys I've heard of involve reproduction
 
for the people still on the site (including myself) we all have stockholm syndrome, we say we'll leave but we love the way they treat us.
 
11:49 AM
I'm good since I received my pomodoro. Helps me preventing spending too much time here.
Very recommended.
This is just an exception for the dramatic circumsntances.
 
@StephanS You know what? You might actually be right. But I have no qualms about boarding a lifeboat once there is any.
 
@JohnDvorak Well we all could just go to Quora XD
 
One could make a Stack Exchange without the evi oh wait
 
@StephanS IGuess.gif
 
@john I honestly feel that there's a certain set of fairly unique circumstances that made Stack Exchange work
While he'd probably disagree - Atwood was a really charismatic front man for the company
 
11:58 AM
such as.....
 
and both him and Spolsky were at least a little internet famous
They had a very clear plan - and it obviously wasn't just "Lets build a less annoying experts exchange"
and they were willing to diviate from it
I think collectively the folks here probably have the skills to build at least a middling SO clone
 

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