I appreciate your points, but I would also like to point out that life is full of false dichotomies.
Medical deaths can be reversed and patients certified to be dead comes back alive.
You never think about it really... Concepts like light vs. darkness and good vs. evil seems to be fundamental, inalienable facts. The human mind always seems to default assume a diametric, exclusive relationship between opposites.
In most arguments, both parties confidently asserts their stances to be equally countering, neglecting of plans that works out for both. Unfortunately, no plans are perfect for both…