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5:00 PM
@fbueckert It must be bad if everyone is talking new badges and you're grumbling about Access :P
 
sounds about right
@Tinkeringbell I'll need to get caught up later ._.
 
Whooooooaaaa
 
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Q: Using a union query in another query results in inconsistent error

fbueckertI'm running a rather confusing issue. I'm trying to pull together data from a couple different tables in an Access 2013 database. No big deal, write a union query, pull the same number of columns, good to go, right? It works fine. The issue crops up when I create another query to use the resu...

 
That's a lotta badges
 
5:17 PM
@JourneymanGeek How many is a lot? :P
I got exactly 1.
 
4 lifejackets on MSE, one on MSF 3 on SU
 
Nice!
I think the only downside I can see to these badges is even more fastest guns in the west, answering even the bad questions because if they get edited it might earn them a badge... But hopefully that's too much effort for people to game.
 
most of which posts I forgot about, and some of the SU ones are embarassingly bad ;p
@Tinkeringbell don't forget the upvotes
Sometimes a 'dumb' question could be better than it looks at first look
 
@Aibobot True, but answering a question that should be closed, just because it might be edited/reopened and upvoted later? Not a good practice IMO
Though 'answered' posts usually don't get an edit, so...
Just hope the post is deleted somehow and not left around gathering upvotes.
 
closed no
downvoted? Sometimes
actually one of the meta posts is a decent example
 
5:21 PM
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Q: Stack Exchange websites have been very slow for the past one week

BhavinOn my PC Stack Exchange websites are very slow. Its response time is almost 5 minutes, and it's too much. Sometimes it loads in 1.5 minutes. And other websites are loading properly. I have attached screenshots of Google's response time and Stack Exchange response time. Stack Overflow's respons...

 
There's an actual reason for that
so its not as bad a question as it looks at first
 
meanwhile dog and alpha dog talking to each other...
 
@EKons primary account is on my phone
Easier to type on my office laptop
 
aw killjoy
 
@Aibobot Meh. I still feel it's a bit weird to reward badges for answering bad questions (even when an edit can make them good, edit/close, not answer...). But I've never really gotten fond of the idea that an answer can make a question look great.
 
5:27 PM
Otoh easier to find stuff on my main account
 
@Tinkeringbell assuming the question is actually bad
and a good answer can add context I guess
 
@Aibobot The problem with the sites I'm on is that mostly the 'context' is then wild guesses and opinions :/
Those shouldn't be in answers, those should be details clarified and put in the question.
 
@Tinkeringbell well, that's a problem with Q&A for soft topics ;p
 
And until then, the question is maybe not bad but certainly also not great.
 
@Tinkeringbell and that's also part of the process or answering and engagement I suppose?
 
5:32 PM
@Aibobot Ehh, preferably not... Writing an answer is anything but more likely to engage an asker, as they now put no more effort in their question (at least, from what I've seen).
So you keep having questions around that are either mediocre, or less than that... :/
 
The Lifeboat one I got on SO... actually was based on discussion/feedback on this room with Shog and others...
Nov 18 '15 at 4:08, by Andrew T.
need thought on this question, worth to reopen? http://stackoverflow.com/questions/26172770/video-format-supported-both-in-ios-a‌​ndroid-and-web/
 
Rob
@Feeds I like the Tumbleweed and Reversal Badges, and disagree with their replacements:
 
6:06 PM
a bad question is a bad question. That it receives up votes once answered doesn't change that.
It just means it's gonna stick around
 
Rob
I just got a Dorodungo Badge (silver) on Meta, they are being passed out en-masse.
 
We're assuming though, that a question 1) remains bad 2) downvotes always mean bad
 
bad is subjective
 
@Rob the life* badges are handed out retroactively
And tbh
I find the sheer number of reversal badges I got on MSE slightly embarassing ._.
 
i got one boat and 4 jackets on SO,
they're all pretty shitty questions
 
Rob
6:16 PM
Dorodungo
 
So, basically, Stack Exchange really wants people to answer terrible questions
*slow clap*
 
@JohnDvorak What was reversal about, then?
I wouldn't want to put a negative spin on this one.
 
Neither do I, but that's how it looks
 
@Aibobot I only have three reversal badges, but no lifeboats. Guess I'm really good at picking lousy questions to answer :P
 
@Tinkeringbell I have 12 reversal badges on my main
And reversal was literally a good answer to a bad question
Well or or unpopular.
 
6:27 PM
How is this comment not unfriendly or unkind?
 
@SonictheBracketedHedgehog it could be taken as being humourous.
 
it's not unfriendly or unkind
 
@Rob TBF Tumbleweed was indeed a Tumbleweed of a badge IMO.
 
Rob
It's an answer in a comment, 10 years old, with 11 upvotes - it's not R/A, etc.
 
You give up on a question, and a few days later, get a remind from the system that no one cared about your question. How does this help anything?
 
6:31 PM
it reminds you that it exists and that maybe you should do something about it
unfortunately people didn't take the hint most times. it was ineffective.
 
Rob
You improve your question and bump it, plus your badge count is increased.
 
badge counts on their own...don't really mean anything
and stuff like tumbleweed and unsung hero are a bit of a booby cheeve.
... which sounds wrong
 
Rob
Says the person with few.
Some people have so many badges it overflows the space provided.
 
@SonictheBracketedHedgehog If that's rude, then any comment referring to a general population of "homework vampires" etc. would be rude as well
It's not directed at anyone.
 
Heh, just earned a Lifeboat badge for my answer regarding why people post blatantly off-topic questions. Now I have an example of why this behavior should be encouraged.
 
Rob
6:38 PM
I've earned a total of one LB, so that's either really good or really bad. 😕
I've been here over a half dozen years ....
 
@Rob Same here, the one on IPS meta just came in. So a jacked on main and a boat on meta... And here I always thought the most dramatic content was on main...
 
IMHO these badges are way better than their predecessors. It would be an entirely different argument to see if they're any good, but Tumbleweed was useless and Reversal was such an after-the-fact badge it didn't encourage anything either way.
 
Rob
@Tinkeringbell The one for Meta is a Full Metajacket.
 
@Rob Heh XD
 
i agree about tumbleweed. but i disagree about reversal. Does it need to exist? eh, probably not. are the new badges better? eh, it requires the question to end up with a positive score, i guess that can be considered good? sometimes?
it's probably good for keeping the users who asked the questions that are affected by this around
 
6:44 PM
Now there's not much of an incentive to answer disagreed meta questions with explanations...
 
i mean
a badge isn't much of an incentive to begin with
 
@SonictheBracketedHedgehog wait. You do it for badges?
 
Rob
Either badge and they're not likely to come back.
 
@Aibobot No, I didn't shoot for that badge; I was just awarded it.
 
I always considered badges to be a kinda after the fact motivator, especially in situations like this where you have no control.
We're talking incentives
 
6:46 PM
A perfect example: Tenacious and Unsung Hero.
 
@SonictheBracketedHedgehog those are wooden spoon badges
and here's literally no way you can get one on purpose ._.
 
I always viewed badges as training wheels. They're there to sort of drive how newer users use the site. Once you're more accustomed to the site the badges (other than tag badges) are less meaningful
heh, i have both of those badges
 
Rob
A mind numbing question can tumbleweed, and an insightful question can reverse once the people whom understand the complexity get off work and upvote a good question.
 
or when "helpers" find it and say Oh hey i can answer this question that was asked a thousand times before! it's a good question! we can always use another!
 
Rob
Tenacious is hard to get, got one on Physics; even harder.
 
6:50 PM
I think the most common cases for the new gold is not that people realize the question is awesome all of a sudden, but that the whole thread looks so helpful they upvote the question too.
The question would still be the same one some downvoted.
 
People upvote garbage all the time
look at the android tag
 
And that's IMO not necessarily bad. Some people make the distinction per post, others look at the thread as a whole.
 
@KevinB people do all sorts of things.
 
The line of thinking would go like "now that this has this awesome answer, the answer wouldn't have been there if it wasn't for the question, so it feels wrong if it's standing at -3". For example.
 
Rob
Proposal: Sheep Shearer badge, for the opposite conditions of reversal.
 
6:52 PM
Of course, even more often is when the question is outrageous so no one feels that way.
 
people do often vote in that way, yes
it's how i got my reversal and now boat badge
it was -7 before any answeres were posted, now it's over 2k
 
@KevinB I don't think it's a problem though. It does make some annoying "why dis get votes me jealous waa waa" meta pop up, but it doesn't encourage bad questions like the normal crap answered does. A popular answer does those, but the crappy questions with popular answers rarely get to the minuses to get the answerer a badge like that. I think that's an important distinction
So all in all, I don't think this badge encourages any bad behavior any more than, say, Marshal does.
 
The popular answer just keeps the post from being deleted. Votes on the question at that point don't matter because the answer will prevent it from being deleted.
what i AM saying is this keeps garbage around. It encourages answering bad questions with the purpose of keeping people who are asking bad questions around.
which, isn't necessarily bad, but it doesn't help them learn to do better either.
 
@KevinB I feel like it also encourages users to just dump bad questions, and leave it for others to clean up.
Sure, it encourages good behaviour. From curators.
 
7:07 PM
Let's see how it plays out. Of course, the outcome can be very different for SO versus other SE sites
 
But...how does it encourage good behaviour from those actually asking those bad questions?
 
And I can tell these badges were made with the original mindset of smallish SO
 
It does ... if you count ad revenue as good behavior, rather than quality
 
@JohnDvorak I don't think we need to start digging for nefarious motives.
 
It's not nefarious, merely ... focused on own benefit, to use rosy words.
 
7:10 PM
@fbueckert It doesn't. It encourages/supposed to encourage only answerers
 
@Marshmallow and it fails miserably
 
To come up with good stuff for crappy questions
@JohnDvorak What wouldn't fail miserably, in your opinion?
 
Do you know what encourages askers the most? Getting answers.
@Marshmallow hard to tell. Focusing on quality would improve the site quality for sure, but there's less revenue in it.
 
Of course, there will be the bunch who don't understand why their answer wouldn't deserve +5 or +20. Let's see how many of those try answering.
 
i mean... it's obvious, to me at least, this is just another initiative aimed at reducing the perceived barriers of entry by encouraging people to answer more and curate less strictly. but, meh, it's just a badge at the end of the day. this isn't any kind of policy shift
 
7:12 PM
@Marshmallow Well, considering it is supposed to replace Tumbleweed....there needs to be some sort of benefit. Even if that benefit is no longer, "You suck, have a badge."
 
@JohnDvorak No, I mean the alternative criteria for a badge that would encourage good answers, when they're possible, to crappy questions.
 
it doesn't replace tumbleweed does it? tumbleweed was just deleted.
 
it replaced reversal
 
@fbueckert It is? I mean, I didn't read the blog post, but my impression was two were gone and two were invented, not necessarily related
 
7:13 PM
@Marshmallow I mean, that's not something that should be encouraged if you're going for site quality
 
Of course, reversal is related, but that's probably it's going. Can't say the same for 'weed
 
feel free to disagree, but do back up your disagreement with arguments
 
Rob
My understanding is that they changed the name of two badges, that is all.
 
@Rob Nope. The Reversal replacement now needs the question to be positively scored.
 
True.
 
7:15 PM
@JohnDvorak I don't think debating it holds much value at this point. We need to see which reaction will be more common "Oh man, getting a +5 answer to this crap is impossible, I wouldn't answer it" vs. "oooh, what if I gets badge if I answer this"
 
True that the +5 barrier is a good thing to have, even though I wouldn't mind upping it a little bit higher
 
My initial thought was this wasn't a pair of badges that would affect site behavior much
 
probably isn't, true
 
Initially, maybe, but soon people will realize it's really hard to get, and you can't get it on the average tomorrow's homework
 
Rob
Ah, some parameter tweaking and new names, plus if you already had the old badge (earned by the former criteria) your old badge is simply renamed.
 
7:19 PM
I wouldn't be surprised if you could
 
The best change here was that Tumbleweed is gone
 
I'm curious if anyone'd gotten a tumbleweed for a spam post Smokey didn't catch.
 
I'm pretty sure I've only gotten 1 Tumbleweed in the past four and a half years.
 
i don't have tumbleweed
my questions all received plenty of votes
 
I don't have tumbleweed. All of my SO questions are actually well-received mathematical proofs resolving very difficult but extremely important mathematical conjectures.
 
7:28 PM
mine were mostly meh, but because i routinely left comments requesting clarification or changes to posts that i downvoted, i received a lot of revenge votes
 
8:18 PM
@Tinkeringbell In case you happened to miss the joke in this comment: it's a quote from the Sonic video games. The link there is to a video of him saying it.
For context:
@SonictheBracketedHedgehog So are you, this whole comment thread is turning out to be one big shipwreck! — Tinkeringbell ♦ 59 mins ago
 
blink I'm a mod now. I wasn't expecting that.
 
@fbueckert Woah! Congrats! :D
 
@fbueckert mistakes do happen. Congrats! ;)
 
Woot woot! Time to roll up sleeves.
 
9:15 PM
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A: How do you get the Tumbleweed badge?

George StockerYou get it by asking a question that gets no answers, no votes, no comments, and low views for a week. In other words, you get it as a consolation prize for asking a bad question.

"In other words, you get [the Tumbleweed badge] as a consolation prize for asking a bad question."
 
Rob
9:33 PM
Whew!, talk about unwelcoming.
 
@Rob that's sadly and remarkably common
 
10:18 PM
@Rob Hmm
"blunt" and "harsh" are not the same
 
And honestly - keeping everyone happy is impossible
 
Rob
@Aibobot So I see, I guess they don't realize it in some cases.
 
Even the most popular mods have folks who think they're not up to it
 
I've been encountering strange bugs in the CV queue where I review something as "Close", my close vote goes through, but the review task is not dismissed. I have to click "Leave Open" for it to count as my having reviewed it.
 
10:27 PM
@Aibobot "most popular"? You're just showing off. I can see your tail wagging
TBF, we all need that stern teacher, and people tend to hate stern teachers.
It's hard to communicate with people like that, but as long as you listen, you don't really need to communicate
From all the others that would go "hi newbie, I'm miss Sugarcoat", I would prefer an fbueckert who doesn't.
And I've been more the sugarcoater lately, personally
 
Rob
Opining on the congratulatory post is one I've not seen. The were 9 people to vote for and ~50% of the people whom looked at the election page voted; there also seemed to be few opposing comments; when rallying could have made a difference. Now it's over, they complain.
 
Sometimes people are going to hate you for it, but it doesn't make doing it less right
 
@Rob as a mod? We just deal with it
 
@Rob That's also part of what makes me a bit skeptical about 'harshness' and 'vitriol'
I mean, I've seen @fbu's on meta.SO.
Servy and Hans are much worse, haha.
But as intimidating as they sound to respond back to, it's been very few cases where their reaction was 'uncalled for'.
Anyway, WTH am I doing. It's 3 a.m.
 
Is this chatroom geared to site mods, primarily? Because mostly what I see here are site mods high-fiving other site mods, and for the most part, ignoring non-site mods who care just as much as any of you do about SE. I ask this because the current discussion about someone elected to become one of you! And dismissing out of hand, any/all feedback from other users. Know that I have known for a long time that this goes on, and also among Community managers. Better to not be so public about ...
 
10:38 PM
Uni? Heh, Uni nominated? Wonder why they no longer come here. @Sha do you know why?
@Namaste Please visit my profile and remind me where I'm a mod
 
... your obvious "elite" statuses, and how stupid you think the people under your jurisdiction are.
 
And "I'm skeptical about harshness, but do admit the bluntness" is not dismissing feedback IMO
@Namaste "elite" status? C'mon, I got 7k rep only today on Chem.
I used to have the deletion privileges before it graduated, but I haven't even had access to 10k tools ever since.
 
This question should be undeleted as it's linked in the changelog post with little context.
I can't flag it since it's historically locked (which is enough IMO).
 
Also, I do think you need to be more specific about your critique of my messages, or we can't really discuss anything meaningfully @Namaste. I'm open to improving my attitude, if I need to. For reals.
@SonictheBracketedHedgehog Why was it deleted?
. . . and was it deleted by staff?
@Namaste All I'm saying is if it's anything other than a [popular] jab at a candidate, why did it not reflect itself in the votes? And I'm sharing my personal experience that he's usually blunt, but rarely unfriendly.
 
@Marshmallow I'm sorry to have overgeneralized about the most frequent users here being upvoted. But I can come up with a list of 20 meta users whose posts, however narrow, however poor in quality, get a landslide of upvotes, while most others are quickly picked apart. Folks aren't to upvote only those they like... that's grounds for suspension. Yet regularly, some users are simply ignored, considered not part of the "club"... on meta.se and in many of its chats.
 
10:47 PM
@SonictheBracketedHedgehog I think the general attitude was to keep stuff like that around because, you know, it's history. Like meta's memes, or Flack Overstow, or lots of other posts about April Fools and what-not. It could use the lock maybe, to prevent misguided useless new activity on it, like a bug report or something. Unless it was deleted by staff, or something else which would make deletion a final decision, but I can't see that until I answer enough meta rants
 
@Marshmallow I do not know the user. I was pointing to the conversation here, and the default attitude of dismissal of users unknown to regular users on meta who by definition are not site mods, nor suck-ups on meta.se.
 
@Namaste Well, about chat, there's only here and Shadow's Den, which gets regular chatting activity. About the site, are we talking about answers with a more neutral tone, like a bug report or something, or the more philosophical and more emotional ones?
Of course, seeing an answer by, say, @Journey, means I'm most probably going to agree with him, so even before reading it, I personally reflexively hover over the upvote button
But I never (Rarely?) vote without reading and understanding the answer to the best extent. My personal impression is this is a much easier place than meta.SO
 
@Marshmallow Exactly. That's what I'm suggesting happens. Not for nefarious reasons, just as most users don't display bias in their voting for nefarious reasons; but "regulars" on MSE are just as subject to biased voting as are "regular users" (just not regular on MSE), but they're never confronted about it.
 
Out of on-topic downvoted meta posts here, I don't get the downvotes on maybe one or two out of ten
@Namaste I think that'd be more because it's hard to do the confronting constructively. Since it's the established system being criticized, it's far too easy to just be critical.
The posts of that type usually boil down to a "u suck", and if they do present any alternatives, it's usually contrary to the core of the model. Like "allow too broad" or somesuch. It also doesn't help that it's usually not a frequent user of meta who has something to say, but someone who's frustrated about closure
There is the rare post from a very established user calling for sanity though
 
Rob
@Marshmallow 🏸
 
10:56 PM
I'm not dismissing out-of-hand MSE, nor its chatrooms. I'm just expressing how I've experienced the site in the past couple of months.
 
But there would be little incentive to change a system that works 80% of the time.
@Rob Is that a pie emoji. I can't see it.
 
@Marshmallow Well, unlike you, I always strive for achieving the 99th percentile! ;-)
 
@Namaste You could be the one writing such a post. It doesn't even have to offer a possible alternative, it just shouldn't antagonize the audience it's referring to. I think I recall an instance or two when you disputed this regular meta behavior and you had a point, but I can't remember it clearly
 
@Marshmallow I've mellowed, since the first days of my persistent appearance here.
 
So an its-broken-beyond-repair approach?
That's probably common enough, actually
Meta's regular readers probably paid attention to the first couple of hundred criticisms, but when the ideas presented in those were debunked, it'd be kinda natural to dismiss further criticism as baseless
Also, what you say further reinforces my impression that meta.SE's more like this quiet hut in the suburbs than the busy bazaar in city center
 
11:04 PM
@Marshmallow No. I don't think it's broken beyond repair. What I'm saying is that if I had posteted Does meta have to mean murder, word for word, sentence for sentence, I do believe it would have been downvoted into oblivion. Instead, a user privileged to get the benefit of the doubt, who has a lot of support, got lots of deserved upvotes. Do you not see this as a problem?
 
Rob
@Marshmallow It is a Badminton Racket with Shuttle CK.
 
We're an isolated bunch. We get lots of visitors from the busy parts but the feel, the culture, is different.
 
Rob
The meaning: bad mitten.
That's a mitten, I presume that you don't have them were you are.
 
@Marshmallow Just affirms my suggestion that meta.se regulars are an "exclusive" sort, hugging each other in support, because of their believe that non regulars are clueless.
 
Rob
The suggestion from the emoji being that you see his post and you slam the upvote button - which is what you said. (I also read the next line).
 
11:07 PM
@Rob Who are you addressing. I'm in Wisconsin. I have lots of mittens.
 
Rob
So, it was easier to just send the emoji, than to explain it. Sigh.
 
@Rob Again, who are you addressing?
 
@Namaste Oh, that's the rare call-to-sanity I was talking about. It merits its own lengthy debates on whether this is natural and even whether that makes it okay, but even if it's not, as I said, a system that works a majority of the time (doesn't even need to be a significant majority) will take lots of willpower to change that sometimes doesn't exist.
To be entirely fair, I think there is the chance that a sentence-by-sentence copy would not have been downvoted if it wasn't Monica.
@Namaste Not because. Outsiders' cluelessness in an entirely different perception
But yes, both perceptions of 'hugging' and 'considering outsiders clueless' exists. I do agree.
AIWS, the post had a chance of good reception even if it wasn't a member of the 'clique', see all the subtle attempts (It probably makes up half the post) at making it clear it's not accusing, patronizing or antagonizing the audience
 
@Namaste that seems excessively harsh
 
@JourneymanGeek What I deleted prior to your coment?
 
11:13 PM
It doesn't have the us vs. them attitude, as most other posts do.
 
No, what I replied to
 
@JourneymanGeek I've seen this expressed in this chat and in Shadow's Den. If it's harsh, it's also honest. If you don't want honest, say so. If you want to dismiss me and exile me because you label it as "harsh", that's on you.
 
I hope I'm not being delusional here by all this. But I mean, I think regulars are conditioned into going to battlestations when discussions like this show up, due to the countless times similar discussions were being accusatory and combative. The smallest hint makes them (me) defensive, it won't otherwise.
 
Actually it's totally on you
 
@Journey well, that was half an hour ago, I think the discussion can go on.
I agree that downvotes serve a purpose, and some downvoting functionality should remain, but @Tinkeringbell, I think piling on excessive downvotes on questions (-10, -16, -28?), which happens far more frequently on MSE than anywhere else on the network, goes overboard, and seems to be a "pile-up" effect of "i see others think it's bad, so me too!" (The "contagion effect".) — Namaste May 16 at 16:33
This is not necessarily true
It was even brought up here before and I opined on it
 
11:19 PM
@Marshmallow I appreciate your discussion here. I understand the dynamics, I really do. I empathize. But psychological defenses do not good community moderation make.
 
@Marshmallow Uni who? UniKitty??
 
@ShadowTheCurlyBracedWizard Yeah. Wasn't . . . she, I think . . . Unionhawk? Or was that Unihedron?
 
Oh... Hedron. Not familiar with that one much, think it's a "he" though.
Gone for long time too.
 
@Namaste Most don't act on it. People try to be themselves. If they're blunt or harsh or nice, they usually post in-character comments anyway. But nothing stops them from voting the way they feel they should vote, and I don't think the person who made the post has much to do with it, but the content the post has
Where were we? I think what I meant by my long-winded novel here overall is actually that it's harder to post such things, and by no means impossible, and the scope of what counts as constructive criticism narrows down greatly.
 
@Namaste Nothing wrong with being honest. I was, honestly, probably the hardest on the mods prior to my election.
 
11:25 PM
@Marshmallow that won't help a bit. The flags will just sit somewhere and we'll still get evil ads.
I lost faith in SE when it comes to ads, and I'm afraid nothing can change that.
 
But being harsh starts loading it towards being automatically dismissed. You can say it's on us, but you play a part in how you word things.
 
@Namaste in fact, I think an example demonstrating what I mean is the question of my second most-upvoted answer here.
 
@Namaste @Marshmallow, are you addressing this? Because I beg to differ on that. (You may actually personally vote on content, and not on recognizably of the OP, but that's not true of most regulars here.)
 
45
Q: Why does Stack Exchange have to feel so unfriendly now?

PatrickI've been a programmer for nearly 30 years. Like most of you, I have worked with the guy who sits in the corner, seems to know everything, but whom you have to approach with kid gloves if you need to ask him a question. Stack Exchange feels like this now. I fully understand the need to try to m...

^ This is not asked by a regular
But it makes it clear how it differs from other posts. It attracts answers, is a bit controversial too, but still sitting at 45.
And it's not the only example.
 
@Marshmallow Thanks for linking this example. It was posted four years ago, and I am here discussing the unfriendliness and dismissiveness demonstrated now on MSE, and some of its intentionally cryptic chat rooms/descriptions.
 
11:30 PM
@Namaste It's generally a good idea to get a good feel of the history, I think.
 
I don't think anything has changed, except perhaps a more cynical attitude towards SE staff.
 
The unwelcoming I got is more or less par for the course from that user; we don't get along.
 
But OK, I'll find a more recent example.
@Namaste My point still stands. The post is there because it's not 'harsh' towards the regular audience. It's not accusatory, it's not calling them idiots for not understanding the OP's perfect posts, it's not calling mods censors, it's not assuming downvoters have a "God complex" (yeah, we had that one too), and it's not 'pleading for mercy' because they're a nonnative speaker of a 'noob' or some irrelevant category
 
@Marshmallow There are definitely good things happening on MSE. And I do not believe regulars engage in intentional, malicious behavior. I am simply suggestions that meta regulars do more meta-thinking: stepping away from knee-jerk defensiveness and pats on the back to members of the "us" and vilification of "them", to evaluate the impact of their sometimes-reflexive voting/comments on other users, and their own credibilty on the SE network.
 
@fbueckert which happens
@Marshmallow well quite a lot of that. That's something I feel can be a problem even when justified
 
11:39 PM
@Marshmallow Who belongs in the category of SE staff? Volunteer Mods, or SE paid staff?
 
@Namaste we aren't staff
 
@Namaste Paid staff. Volunteer mods are as poor souls as we are, except sometimes wiser. They're much easier to bully around too. Just ask @Journeyman
Oof, I give up.
 
In fact one of the more critical things as mods do is communicate to staff when they mess up ;p
 
@JourneymanGeek I never consider volunteer mods in the "SE staff" category. (Just wanted to clarify if we're on the same page!) And @Marshmallow I agree.
@JourneymanGeek :D
 
And I am critical whenever needed.
But typically it's about issues not people.
 
11:42 PM
I guess since the Welcome wagon people saw it as an easy handle and didn't approach the problem like that guy from four years ago
 
@Marshmallow well I felt the welcome wagon and summer of Love were ineffective ;p
 
@JourneymanGeek As it should be!
 
Compared to things like the aaqw
 
@JourneymanGeek I wouldn't know. But that's true on the sites I frequent.
The main focus was SO.
 
But that's a longer term fix - change can't be dictated
 
11:44 PM
Meta.SO didn't seem better. AT ALL.
 
@Marshmallow that's something I've been vocal about for ages
 
@JourneymanGeek And now you're vocal under, or between?
 
@Marshmallow it's slowly getting better
 
SU is doing fine, stop complaining
Doggy being all loyal
 
@Marshmallow well there's a lot of other things
 
11:46 PM
Actually, I wouldn't know that either. But last time I saw SU on HNQ was agiz ago.
 
Focus going back to Q&A, the CM count actually increasing again ....
There's of course still work to be done
 
@Namaste Another personal observation is the jaded recent outlook (especially on meta.SO) where people were so tired of debating the wagon thing that they developed an attitude of "we'll change when new shitposters change", to put it bluntly. It might be what you're hinting at, but again, IME it does leak to meta.SE, but doesn't happen as much
And especially thanks to people like NicolBolas, people started rationally thinking about all these things and take a hard look at themselves and all.
I think things have improved quite a bit since the grim place that the whole metas where back in 2018.
 
@Marshmallow Thanks. I really haven't ever been a regular on SO. But I do know the historical connection between meta.se and SO.
 
Room for improvement? Definitely. The way it's going is making me hopeful though
The cynical way SE policies are now treated was improving before it stopped. There DOES indeed seem to be a shift in philosophy way more drastically than anything we remember before, but that's not my boat to save
 
@Marshmallow Deleted by Jeff
 
11:56 PM
@SonictheBracketedHedgehog Oof, then THAT'S history. I guess maybe talk it through with Journey or Tink though. I don't think it affects the current SE affairs, just what the site looks like, if anyone happens to stumble upon it. Mod opinion should probably suffice
 
It's linked to from the changelog post and the changelog post doesn't provide much context for what it is.
 
My personal opinion is something like that should be visible to people, just like artifacts in a museum
Not saving any bytes, and definitely not cluttering the site. The only argument against would be respecting Jeff's decision. @Journey @Tink what do you think?
 
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