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9:52 AM
@SecretAgentMan Hmmm I always find it hard to erally understand what goes on in her mind. From an outside perspective it almost looks like she has a love-hate relationship with the network, not to dissimilar of an addiction even?
 
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user310756
10:18 AM
anyway. I have scheduled this account to be deleted. I didn't write a post about it, athought a lot of people have
 
Can't wait for the return post
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user310756
I think @Blue is right
 
user310756
@Cereal listen, if you hate me, that's fine. I don't want to know. Ya know
 
user310756
you've made your feelings clear under my meta post
 
I don't hate you
I don't know you
 
10:19 AM
mkay
let's not get personal?
 
user310756
@ArtOfCode who?
 
everyone
it's just a bad idea in general
 
user310756
I wasn't insulting anyone
 
@YvetteColomb Wow, that definitively sounds abusing IMO. Like "I will hunt you down until you die". Sorry you had to read that :/
 
user310756
I was insulted
 
10:20 AM
I didn't say you were.
 
@YvetteColomb I started the re-open(war) on that post btw ;)
 
@BelovedFool That's... a bit of an exxageration.
 
user310756
@Luuklag thanks
 
user310756
@Cerbrus that's how it feels and it's upvoted and sitting there
 
user310756
it's like we're going to keep going until we run you off the site. That is what it's felt like on here
 
user310756
10:22 AM
but I realise - back onto my original point - that there's too much water under the bridge between me and mods from other sites and so I'm deleting this account.
 
@Cerbrus That's how I read it. If you don't like me at the point you have to make it public that you don't like me. Then something is definitively wrong and the comment should be deleted. But that's just my opinion
 
user310756
It is better - less agro all around.
 
user310756
I did enjoy hanging out here for a few days, but it's not going to be a viable option.
 
@BelovedFool Something is wrong, yes. But is it wrong at the commenter's end, at the recipients end, or are both parties at fault?
 
user310756
so no harm no foul
 
10:23 AM
Deleting the comment doesn't solve anything.
 
user310756
because the commenter doesn't agree with any of my posts I shouldn't be on the site or a mod?
 
@YvetteColomb juuuust be aware that deleting the account makes it fairly unlikely that you'll be able to get the diamond back
 
user310756
@ArtOfCode deleting this account? I never had a diamond on here
 
user310756
I'm referring to MSE
 
oh, right
 
user310756
10:24 AM
ah just checking
 
@YvetteColomb You haven't exactly been on your best behavior, since you stepped down...
So I get where he's coming from.
 
user310756
I'm not being a dick btw @ArtOfCode discussing it here. I'm just telling people, before the account vanishes
 
user310756
without making a post
 
user310756
I've also closed the sock account on here
 
user310756
@Cerbrus what exactly has been the worst?
 
10:26 AM
@YvetteColomb yeah, that's fine. I wasn't under the impression that you were.
 
user310756
please cite where I've broken the CoC? I am being quite serious
 
user310756
@ArtOfCode also it's not up to me to solve the issues on here.
 
@YvetteColomb Constant confrontational contributions, Making every disagreement out to be a personal attack on you. Dismissing everyone that politely disagrees as attack.
Engaging in edit wars
 
user310756
that's an exaggeration Cerbrus
 
7 mins ago, by ArtOfCode
let's not get personal?
I really must insist on that, folks...
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user310756
10:27 AM
I still stand by that post was not good Cerbrus
 
Okay. I'll leave it at that.
 
user310756
@ArtOfCode thanks
 
@Cerbrus In my book of "politeness level 1". You don't tell people you don't like them. You just don't. Especialy publicly. The only exception if they explicitely asked you to tell them if you like them or not
 
user310756
@BelovedFool I agree
 
@BelovedFool I guess that's where cultural differences come in
 
user310756
10:28 AM
and for the record I did just ask Cerbrus what he thought. I'm not offended
 
user310756
@Cerbrus absolutely
 
user310756
that conversation really helped actually
 
user310756
I will be mindful not to call you rude
 
user310756
just Mister :D
 
Okay, then please accept that that's how your interaction on SE comes across to (some) other users.
@YvetteColomb It's not just that.
 
10:29 AM
@YvetteColomb sure, but getting personal is always a good recipe for disaster, especially in already-heated times. Might be better to look for that kind of feedback over another channel - a shared chatroom for the purpose, perhaps, or via email.
 
It's too much to mention, and way more than I want to drag into this room.
 
user310756
@Cerbrus I know, but that was one thing that came out of the convo - I didn't know that was very offensive
 
Ok, too much conflict here, I'm out
 
For the second time today, this has devolved. If you have an issue with somebody else, please settle it in private, not here. This topic of discussion is no longer welcome in the Tavern.
 
Feedback is good, especially if you can accept it without taking offense - but it often doesn't come across that way, in many people. It'll be best to create a dedicated chatroom for this.
 
10:31 AM
Damn that animation of timeout is so buggy
 
user194636
I only come here for the timeout animation
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the numbers are out to get you
 
@194636 "Do it again!"
 
After a little bit the top quarter of the digit disappears
 
user194636
@ArtOfCode It is strangely hypnotic
 
10:32 AM
@Cerbrus that's the second time in like a week already, which is too much
 
@user58 Timeout or that discussion?
 
user310756
@ArtOfCode I'm not that keen for it :D . I was stating - I invited it.
 
timeout
 
user310756
I must admit - the moderation of this room
 
Ah, I agree that it was necessary, and shouldn't be.
 
user310756
10:33 AM
if you're going to kick people = please warn them first
 
@YvetteColomb Aye, that's fine - just not here when folks are already on edge
 
user310756
same if you're going to timeout the room
 
Nope
 
user310756
unless someone is being really abusive, I would always warn people first
 
6 mins ago, by ArtOfCode
I really must insist on that, folks...
 
user310756
10:34 AM
spell it out
 
In my experience, warning people that you're gonna kick them will only give them a chance to make more of a mess....
 
user310756
hm may it comes from being a parent - letting kids know what the consequences will be is vital
 
user310756
it gives them an informed choice
 
I certainly hope we are all more mature then kids
 
I expect people here to not act like children, though. They should be able to infer information from around them.
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10:35 AM
I'd kinda hope I don't have to treat folks here like kids :P
 
I've literally never had a positive response to "Stop it now or I'll kick you"
 
user310756
well - it beats talking to someone and then being kicked and not understanding why
 
Anyway, if it needs to be spelled out: This discussion is over.
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user310756
wow
 
user310756
so we cannot even discuss room moderation
 
user310756
10:36 AM
lol
 
user310756
sounds like people with SO inc being challenged
 
Yvette, please...
 
If you have a problem with the moderation of the room, pass it along to the mods or staff.
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heh, not being able to see why a room went into timeout is kinda :/ - I don't know if that was my browsers fault. I alt tabbed away. came back and everything was shutdown.
 
10:48 AM
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user310756
well anyway I came to say my good byes and even that cannot go smoothly. We did have a couple of good days in here.
 
user310756
Bye
 
user310756
@Shadow I'm closing my account on this site (MSE) soz chook.
 
user310756
the reason I'm leaving is because I cannot do anything to change or improve the site
 
10:51 AM
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12:07 PM
@M.A.R. That's what she said
@194636 That's also what she said
 
user194636
She's very chatty
 
[citation-needed]
 
That's totally not what I said.
 
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