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Q: What's the best way to propose edits to the banning FAQ here on MSE?

Sonic the Inclusive HedgehogIn general, faq posts here on MSE are community-curated, which means that as the system changes, posts can become outdated until members of the community bother to edit them. (This was something that I worked to fix before joining the site.) However, I noticed that the FAQ on bans and the qualit...

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@Tinkeringbell You guys have it made, as mainland Europe has just one time zone
 
> From Iceland in the west to western parts of Russia in the east, the European continent spans 4 standard time zones. There are 4 corresponding DST time zones. Western European Time (WET) and Greenwich Mean Time (GMT)*.
 
@Tinkeringbell I know, which is why I specified "mainland"
British Isles and Iceland aren't part of the "mainland"
 
Congrats. You scrapped 2 out of 4 then
 
Indonesia has 3 time zones...
Fortunately I'm far away from the border~
 
7:25 AM
@Tinkeringbell Ah, right, I forgot Eastern Europe has its own. But the point is, continental U.S. has four.
And I've moved forward by two.
 
@SonictheInclusiveHedgehog deleted by OP who then re-posted it.
 
@ShadowWizard Flagged their current non-deleted post with a request to suspend, as the quality filter kicks in way too late here on Meta. I also suspect socking, as their only four communities doesn't show a suspended one (though they could have just hidden it).
@Tinkeringbell Out of curiosity, have you ever visited the U.S.? If so, where?
 
@SonictheInclusiveHedgehog nah, this is really no cause for suspension. Just downvote.
(so I'd expect your flag to be declined.)
 
@ShadowWizard "Low-quality posts" is a selectable suspension reason, and similar flags of mine in the past have been marked helpful and the user suspended.
 
@SonictheInclusiveHedgehog it's only two posts. As a mod I'd decline such a flag.
 
7:34 AM
@ShadowWizard Three.
 
If the user will keep doing it then by all means, suspension is justified.
@SonictheInclusiveHedgehog oh. Well, so it's on the verge.
 
Well, at least three.
 
Like the USA "three strikes" policy.
 
@ShadowWizard Yeah, generally after three heavily downvoted, low-quality (not merely disagreed) questions, I issue such a flag.
Anyway, I figured the FAQ could use a little revising given the user's persistent questions. Also, it uses a very accusatory tone, which I want to fix.
So I asked the above question to determine SE's preferred way of handling edit requests to that.
 
@SonictheInclusiveHedgehog Here's what the template says, BTW, if that gives you a little more info on when such a flag would be raised:
> We've noticed that you've asked many questions, a large number of which were not well received by other members of our community.

Specifically, many of your questions were downvoted and closed because they seemed to be hastily written, or of the [type that we'd prefer users refrain from asking](/help/dont-ask)
 
8:20 AM
This is actually quite concerning:
There is no doubt we've stopped making changes for core users and your observations about how that's gotten worse ring true to me. And we've certainly seen negative feedback on meta (downvotes being the most trivial). The result may not be what you hope for, however. Often (and more often recently) I've heard colleagues dismiss meta feedback. Nobody wants to listen to relentless negativity. Hence this meta post written in the dead of night so I can finally sleep. As an intermediary between the community and the company, I'd like to help meta feedback be less easily ignorable. — Jon Ericson ♦ Aug 19 at 15:47
Meta isn't going to get any more positive with this attitude. It's bound to get a lot worse.
 
@Magisch Ehh... I got a vibe of... be more careful how you phrase your feedback and it's more likely to get listened to ... out of that ;)
Which is, IMO, a perfectly valid stance?
 
But also unhelpful
 
@Magisch I've been trying to point that out for so long
 
People ain't gonna care. They see this and think "Aha, they're not listening after all, I've been justified in my outrage all along"
 
@Magisch Well.... those people need to go back to reading class then.
 
8:23 AM
Thats a nice equivocation but also unhelpful. SE can't really choose who provides feedback that way
 
@Magisch It was one of my ulterior motives in posting this to point out to the SE team that there are requests pending attention.
@Tinkeringbell What do you think about my answer there?
 
@Magisch True. But they can ask people to keep in mind that they're more likely to get listened to, if they pick their words carefully and not just shout 'NO' at every turn.
The first step to try and get people to change is to educate them
Let them know what's bothering you
 
@Tinkeringbell In my experience all that does is lead to people shouting no louder and with more vulgarity and in greater numbers
In fact, this is the streisand effect. "We won't listen to uncivil feedback" is more likely to provoke a "Uncivil? I'll show you uncivil" type of response
 
@Magisch But there isn't a 'we won't listen to' in there... just a 'we're less likely to'
 
doesn't change what I mean imo
 
8:27 AM
@Magisch Well... Maybe I'm just weird that way then. I kinda like knowing how people work, and how I can best communicate with them. If people say they want my unfiltered opinion they can get it, if they rather have it wrapped in useful feedback, that's something I can do too.
 
@Tinkeringbell Group dynamics make people forget civility sometimes or maybe a lot of times :p
 
@Magisch I watched a few episodes of Black Mirror recently... They do a very good job of putting that into a short movie ;)
Group dynamics are difficult, that's for sure. But it also often takes just one person that the group takes serious, to show that what the group is doing isn't okay
 
@Tinkeringbell they brought only the first season to Israel's cable providers, the rest can only be seen on Netflix... :(
(maybe 2 seasons)
 
@ShadowWizard I am watching it on Netflix ;) There's 4 seasons here so far.
I've gotta go run for tea now, I'll be back later :)
 
8:35 AM
Tea isn't worth running for!
running for coffee
 
@Shadow Why off-topic instead?
Why not use your Chaos Emerald?
 
@SonictheInclusiveHedgehog no question asked, i.e. it does not seek any input. (there's such off topic close reason.)
 
@ShadowWizard Why not "unclear what you're asking"?
 
@SonictheInclusiveHedgehog because nothing is being asked.
 
Chaos Emerald would have yielded a faster closure.
 
8:40 AM
I won't abuse it.
Off topic isn't duplicate.
 
@ShadowWizard Isn't that the point of "unclear what you're asking"?
@ShadowWizard I don't believe that that's abusing it, since it is a duplicate of that question.
 
@SonictheInclusiveHedgehog nope. Unclear what you're asking applies only when there's some question, just unclear.
@SonictheInclusiveHedgehog no it's not, at least in this current form. OP might edit, let's wait and see.
 
@ShadowWizard How would you close it, on some other site without the "this question does not appear..." off-topic reason?
 
@SonictheInclusiveHedgehog what do you mean?
 
@ShadowWizard If a similar type of question were to be asked on some other site, or if that off-topic close reason didn't exist here, what close reason would you use?
 
8:44 AM
@SonictheInclusiveHedgehog none, I'd either custom flag or only downvote and go away.
I won't use wrong close reason only because there's none better.
Or to have it closed faster.
 
@ShadowWizard But I don't think it's a wrong close reason. Explain to me in more details why you think it is.
 
user310756
anyone here have a link to April Wensel's tweet that was pivotal in the welcoming blog? I need it to reference on meta.
 
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@Magisch I feel sorry for the team. I really do. I suspect there's a lot more going on behind the scenes than we know. I don't envy it
 
@YvetteColomb Unfortunately not
 
@YvetteColomb I also do. I also think it's not going to get better
 
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8:48 AM
@SonictheInclusiveHedgehog someone in here would. This is where I first saw it and people seem to magically make links appear. A but like Shog..
 
@YvetteColomb you can use any search result for "april" on here
 
negativity begets negativity. Meta will continue to be unfriendly towards the team
 
user310756
@Magisch :'( that's my concern
 
The accumulated goodwill has been thoroughly spent and now there's a lot of contempt and hostility
 
user310756
@Somewhat oh yeh. Search. Totally forgot about that. (I'm serious I forgot about that)
 
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8:49 AM
@Magisch agree :/
 
@Shadow Okay, I understand that there isn't a question being asked in the post I linked, so it thus can't be a true "duplicate" of my proposed target. But note that according to the FAQ, here on MSE, a question can be "closed as a duplicate of another question that is merely related".
This definitely qualifies as that.
 
Meta now feels like just about any policy discussion anywhere on the net when changes are involved anywhere else
 
@YvetteColomb Search "twitter.com" for all oneboxed tweets here
 
i.E mostly grandstanding and mud flinging with actionable feedback usually buried beneath a pile of salt and snark
 
I just remembered that it happened on April by April
 
user310756
8:51 AM
found it thanks @Somewhat
 
user310756
@Somewhat lol yes!
 
@YvetteColomb @Magisch @Somewhat Was very busy last summer, so I didn't get the chance to meet up with her. (FYI we're both from the San Diego area, but I flew to Austin last Saturday.)
 
user310756
@SonictheInclusiveHedgehog she seems like a lovely person. I really like her and don't like it when people are rude about her.
 
disclaimer - my next post is a joke:
 
user310756
Just because someone doesn't like our site, doesn't mean they're "bad"
 
8:54 AM
@SonictheInclusiveHedgehog wait, weren't you both from South island?
 
user310756
@Derpy ? c'mon, I'm thick, what does that mean? :D
 
@YvetteColomb I don't like it either. In fact, I support her wholeheartedly
 
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@SonictheInclusiveHedgehog :D nice to hear.
 
@YvetteColomb fixed - ye posted in the middle. I should just start using multiline messages, but they won't fix multi line formatting not working...
 
Jul 5 at 3:53, by Makyen
@SonictheInclusiveHedgehog Hmmm... that's interesting. Do you switch bodies back and forth? I'd think it would be disorienting.
 
8:56 AM
I dont like twitter it's so polarizing
I'm sure most people who post controversial topics on there are nice people but most of the time the message gets drowned out in the negativity and just gets people to hate you
 
After those tweets, Shadow...did something unsavory, so I adopted my current username. It perfectly symbolizes my feelings.
(Would rather not air dirty laundry)
 
Lets not relive the tavern drama of the time, though
 
@SonictheInclusiveHedgehog You are called Sonic, not Taki. And you are a blue member of the Erinaceinae family, not a student living in Tokyo
 
@Derpy You're right, I'm not a student living in Tokyo.
 
I think most of meta is universally opposed to the welcoming push or any notion that SE needs to be more welcoming to begin with
At least it seems that way
 
8:59 AM
@Magisch MSO especially
 
So what do you do when your core userbase is not on board?
You can't snob them indefinitely, you need them for the site to work.
 
I get that vibe more so with MSO rather than with MSE (but still to some extent there)
 
@Derpy what is Your Name?
 
@Magisch you accidentally remove all accounts and start from scratch
 
@SonictheInclusiveHedgehog MSO is a unforgiving place
 
9:01 AM
@Magisch I definitely wasn't on board when I was taught "social rules" by my parents. As a semi-autistic I disagreed with them quite a bit at first
 
Yes but these aren't children. They're grown adults and most of them highly paid professionals
You can't use educational tactics for children with this crowd in fact even the attempt will make them resent you, hard
 
You just have to consider that the voices on MSE are the loudest ones. Not necessarily the right ones.
 
@Magisch Exactly.
I would say no, since any option other than (2) would mean Stack Overflow would die and Stack HomeworkFlow would be born. — Martin James Jul 9 at 16:36
Also see question's vote count
@Bart See Tim Post's answer to that question.
 
So what then? I'm curious about the team's plan forward in this instance
 
Read all Tim Post's recent answers to know the tim's plan forward
 
9:04 AM
None of what I said are hard conclusions to draw, and they have people far better then me at drawing them, what's their game plan? The negativity and pushback is unlikely to disappear on its own.
 
@SonictheInclusiveHedgehog too far fetched IMO
 
Let me summarize. What people often mistakenly believe is that being more "welcoming" would involve having to lighten up the site's scope. My suggestion to those people is, carefully read up April's original Medium post on the topic (again if you've already read it). All that needs to be done is to change our tone and attitude. We can keep our existing scope and still have a very welcoming site.
 
I'm inclined to believe the exact opposite is going to happen
I think people would rather just not comment at all then go through the tone police
 
We have been on this discussion before... I don't want it to start all over again.
 
And in the end you'll get a less welcoming result with more new users who will be shunted into the quality control ban machnine without having someone explain to them why
you're right
 
9:06 AM
@Magisch As an autist it's hard for me to grasp tone at times, as you probably know.
 
Lets not have this again
 
Finally, the MSE post often cited by users to remove "thanks" doesn't specifically state that it should be removed. The question is neutral, and the top four answers refer to greetings and signatures only. The top fifth answer says they shouldn't be removed.
 
Like I said long ago... You can't really force people to be nice. Fake niceness is bad.
 
@ShadowWizard But I've proven my ability to do so.
 
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@Derpy aye gotcha! I must away. I've been wasting way too much time on meta to avoid things
 
9:09 AM
@SonictheInclusiveHedgehog your way of thinking is not common.
 
Anyhow, it's getting late, I am two hours ahead of my normal time zone, so will talk later.
 
Most / many people will backlash or go away.
 
@ShadowWizard Exactly. I used to be brutally honest in real life quite a bit. But look at me now.
 
I'll be interested to see stats about the entire thing soon
 
@ShadowWizard This one was :) Because I had it with my mom :)
 
9:15 AM
 
@Tinkeringbell nice! At who's place?
 
@ShadowWizard Ours? :P I still live at home, and I 'work' from home today too :)
I definitely need to find an apartment soon though... ;)
 
9:34 AM
@Tinkeringbell so why the rush? You can have tea with her any time... ;)
 
@ShadowWizard She gets mad if the tea gets too cold :)
 
Heh a mad mother is a bad thing... :D
 
It is ;) I learned that again this weekend :(
 
:( what happened?
Well she has the ultimate card: kicking you out... ;(
 
She decided that it was a good idea to spend a substantial amount of money on some fad diet ... and I pointed out to her the joys of non-protected titles and how those people benefit from other gullible and naive people ...
 
9:38 AM
That said I also lived at home with my mother when I was 25 or so.
 
@Tinkeringbell Was it a juice cleanse?
 
@Tinkeringbell ouch... And she got insulted?
 
@ShadowWizard I'm two years overdue then :P I'm trying to buy my own apartment, but I'm just a year or two too late. Now, prices have gone through the roof.
@ShadowWizard Nah, just mad that I didn't want to try it with her
 
Oh lol
 
@Magisch Nope. Something called 'project gezond' (project healthy). You pay a lot of money, and you get a folder with menu's and recipes for an entire year, with a guarantee of losing .5 to 1 kg a week.
 
9:40 AM
@Tinkeringbell in Israel prices got tripled in 10 years or so
 
@ShadowWizard there's still some affordable stuff here in the north...
 
Apartment that cost 500K 10 years ago... Now cost 1.5M
 
The small print makes it clear that the diet is composed by someone calling themselves a 'food consultant' (which I am too, btw!), not a real dietician (since that's a protected title). Also, you never get any updates, so you'd be eating the same every year.
@ShadowWizard That's a lot! I should've switched to IT sooner, and I could've bought something while we were still having the after effects of that housing crisis (en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_housing_bubble)
 
@Mithrandir sure and south too.. ;)
 
@Tinkeringbell It's really just a "here are some generic recipes but tuned to create a caloric deficit of 500-600 calories a day" thing?
 
9:43 AM
@Magisch Yep... and half of them has tomatoes
 
don't need a recipe book or lots of money for that
The fundamentally hardest part doesn't change with the recipe folder: You need to count calories of what you're eating and cut the snacking
 
@Tinkeringbell ...i like tomatoes
 
@Magisch Exactly my point. But I need to lose a little weight and my adamant refusal led to my mom getting angry. I now promised her I'll take more walks and it looks like I get to eat tomato free for a while :)
@Mithrandir I don't :P
 
*shakes head, muttering*
:P
 
@Mithrandir I do the same when people say they don't like sprinkles ;)
 
9:46 AM
Sprinkles are amazing. They somehow make ice cream even better, which is difficult.
 
@Tinkeringbell It's hard when you're living at home
The only way I was able to it consistently is to count and plan every calorie individually
 
@Magisch In general, my mom already cooks very healthy. I just need to move a little more.
 
I managed to lose weight without moving substantially more
 
@Tinkeringbell Aren't the Dutch like obsessed with bicycles?
 
because I'm inherently lazy
 
9:50 AM
@Mithrandir obsessed is a big word ;)
We use them when we need to go somewhere
@Magisch Yeah well... that'd mean going on some sort of diet, which is indeed hard if you're still living at home ;)
 
@Tinkeringbell diets dont work. It needs to be a permanent lifestyle change
 
@Magisch See? So I need to move more ;)
 
Diets don't work, but I always lose weight...
 
@Somewhat Well, if you're looking for it, I have found some :)
 
10:43 AM
 
chubby bird?
Better than angry, IMO.... :P
@Somewhat because you're sick?
Once every few months my stomach get upset for a day or so, and I lose weight. No need for diet this way. :D
 
@ShadowWizard well, not that sick, but it's harder for me to gain weight than losing it.
 
@ShadowWizard just an idea for a new avatar if @Tinkeringbell doesn't start the diet. ^_^
 
lol
Happy & Chubby or Sad & Fit?
Dunno but if I was to go through a diet I'd likely feel really sad.
(I love to eat!)
 
@Mithrandir And unrelated, I read this as "obese with bicycles" due to the surrounding context...
 
10:46 AM
@Somewhat many people would see this as blessing....
 
11:08 AM
@Derpy I like him. I might start exercising and use that avatar :P
 
11:22 AM
@Tinkeringbell maybe try to find a not watermarked version ^_^'
 
11:55 AM
@Derpy I noticed that :)
 
@YvetteColomb I've never quite seen someone get unbanned and quite so quickly step back into the rake they've just been removed from as the one guy on MSO
also, there are at least 3 lurking staff members
including one very conspicous g3rv4 :p
 
user310756
@Magisch yeh I was disappointed. We put our necks on the line giving that user another chance
 
user310756
@Magisch yeh, that's their job lol
 
user310756
they're paid to lurk. The madness is, we are not! lol
 
@YvetteColomb some of the js room regulars seem to have called it ahead of time
 
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12:06 PM
@Magisch yeh
 
12:33 PM
@Magisch but @g3rv4 isn't a CM, MSO isn't included in his paycheck. ;)
And he's spared the whole drama... or at least should be spared...
 
that's right, I just have this room as my favorite and the first thing I do in my day is join my favorite rooms
I plead not guilty
 
g3rv4 is a welcome sight nonetheless
 
The warning diamond on the Materials Safety Data Sheet for this stuff just has the "😰" emoji in all four fields.
3
 
Favorite rooms is kinda of a wrong name for it though :P There's rooms that definitely aren't my favorite rooms, yet I hang out there anyways :P
 
Bug: SE broke the emoji in the tooltip
 
12:47 PM
Bug: SE allows emoji in the tooltip
 
Bug: Tavern has xkcd feed
 
goes to get the bugspray...
 
bugs away slowly
 
someone got back their 3000 years chat suspension, huh.
Oh, I read it wrongly, moving on~
 
1:04 PM
Oh, the 3000 years chat suspension indeed returned. I was confused by the wording for the moment...
It's like, a technique in Naruto: One Thousand Years of Death :(
or maybe... Three Thousand Years of Death..‌​.
back to preparing and writing an answer on SE~
 
1:52 PM
So is no moderator going to stop pnuts from continuing their edit spree?
 
the only way to stop them is by suspension. You might want to flag for mod attention, hoping the mod will warn them
 
someone else raised a flag 3 days ago, I'm not going to bother raising another one at this point :p
 
I know at least 2 mods were active on today's meta post
 
yes, making it even more annoying that said flag is still on 'pending'
@YvetteColomb is this case being discussed by other mods currently? (I completely understand if you don't want to personally get involved too much :) )
 
might be too late on Australian time never mind, not that late
 
 
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@Stijn huh? what case
 
user310756
3:49 PM
@Stijn oh I see. We're not ignoring it.
 
4:04 PM
Random thought of the day: if I was a web browser, my name would be "Caleb Hyles(lookalike; actually John Dvorak, born: Prague, currently in: Prague)"
 
4:17 PM
@Shog9 Can you please also answer my other question?
@JohnDvorak User agent?
 
user310756
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That pencil is way too small :P
 
@YvetteColomb I'm old enough for that one :D
 
user310756
lol
 
user310756
I was watching a comedy sketch about how when this comedian was young. they'd make ashtrays in art class! too funny
 
4:24 PM
@YvetteColomb We still kinda used to do that, but they'd just call it 'gifts' :P We'd make low bowls with clay, and paint/decorate them ;)
 
user310756
yep
 
@YvetteColomb the hexagonal shape of the pencil would catch on the teeth of the spools, allowing you to turn them easily.
 
user310756
well that's the 3 people who get it :)
 
@YvetteColomb .... been there, done that.
 
user310756
and hanging by the radio with the fingers on the record and play button hoping to tape a favorite song
 
4:38 PM
Pro-tip: don't twist the pencil with your fingers. Grab it with both hands and use centrifugal force to spin up the cassette to much higher speeds than your fingers could achieve.
It doesn't work for tape pulled out from the cassette, but it works like a charm for rewinding it.
 
user194636
5:34 PM
feels good being the fourth person to star that
 
8:41 PM
What's up with the "Sponsored links for this tag"? They seem to always be the same links and image.
 
heh...
 
user image
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@TravisJ heh.... guess Hazelcast paid SE lots of money.
And the irony is they don't have ad on their own tag page. stackoverflow.com/questions/tagged/hazelcast
lol
Though since actual money is involved here from many other companies who can sew SE for such a bug, I'm surprised it doesn't get top priority. Oh well.
 
 
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@ShadowWizard It looks fixed
 
@YvetteColomb my mom still uses casettes
 
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@JourneymanGeek :)
 

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