Ann, we've told you before that we can't tell you whether or not your suspension is justified because none of us have access to the details surrounding your suspension.
Please refrain from discussing your SO suspensions on MSE: It's a suspension on SO, it's specific to one site, if you really have to ask to figure out how to avoid making the same mistake again, ask on Meta SO, do not try to circumvent the restrictions upon your account by posting here. The person that had their account deleted should fill in the contact form if they want something done, not have you post on MSE.